Some General Rules for Good Beta Boys
OBEY YOUR ALPHA FULLY
This means going beyond the letter of what he says & getting to the spirit of it. Any slave can follow orders. You should expect more from yourself. At times, that may even includeā¦
FEEL FREE TO QUESTION
One big difference between a beta & a slave is that a beta is expected to think for himself. That means youāll have questions sometimes. Ask away. If he doesnāt feel like explaining it, heāll say so. If your question bugs you, he may punish you for asking. If he tells you to just shut up & do it, you will. But always keep yourself open to him, including staying intellectually bright & available. One important caveat to this is how you behaveĀ in public. In front of others there should be no questioning of what he says. This is becauseā¦
RESPECT IS PRIMARY
He shouldnāt have to come up with elaborate rules to display your submission to him. It should be clear at all times, though it may be casual & unobtrusive, that you respect & surrender to his superior masculinity. However, without a set of rules to govern every situationā¦
EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED
Youāve spent the last couple weeks hanging out with him like a buddy? That doesnāt mean that tonight he isnāt gonna suddenly get off on embarrassing & humiliating you, or rough you up a little & tell you to just take it, or do whatever the hell else he wants. Variety is the spice of life. Be ready to be his buddy, bitch, lover, partner, servant, or wingman as the situation and his mood dictate. And no matter what position youāre in at the momentā¦
BE PROUD OF WHAT HEāS MADE OF YOU
Heās put work into developing you the way he likes you. Itās taken some thought & planning on his part to figure out how you can best meet his needs. Be proud of him for the work heās put in, and remember toā¦
BE THANKFUL
You get to be part of something bigger than yourself & he deserves thanks for letting you in on it. You can express your thanks through affection, gifts, maintenance, praise, & service. Be creative. Surprise him. Make him smile. But while you enjoy your bond with himā¦
JEALOUSY DOESNāT LOOK GOOD ON ANYONE
There will never be reason for him to be jealous because your sexuality will be decided by him. But there should never be a reason for you to be jealous either. The whole point is him enjoying his masculinity, which means as long as heās having fun, it doesnāt matter if itās with you or someone else. So long as heās developing some part of you for his enjoyment, it doesnāt have to be the sexual part of you.
GET READY TO GROW
Youāll probably learn new things about yourself as you serve your Alpha. He may help you develop skills youād have never explored on your own. There are, of course, the basics he shouldnāt have to worry aboutā¦
TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH
A sick beta is a burden. Eat right, exercise, get enough sleep (except on those occasions when he doesnāt let you- then make up for it later.) You wanna keep it in good shape becauseā¦
HE GETS IT ALL
Every inch of you is his and should be available to him anytime. He deserves the best. That may or may not mean that everyone else (or anyone else) knows about it becauseā¦
MEN DESERVE THEIR PRIVACY
Once initial expectations have been set, donāt go whining for more than he has for you. If heās married to someone else, youāre never gonna get treated like his spouse. If itās understood that he dates other people, he may fall in love with them. Itās up to him whether or not the other people in his life know about you or not, & whether they know about your service to him or not. Alphas have a lot of people who want to be around them. Itās up to him to balance who can best meet his needs & desires, which comes down toā¦
LOVE, HONOR AND OBEY BUT STAY OUT OF HIS HAIR
Of course he should have the ability to find out where you are & what you are doing when he wants to, but he has more important things to do than to supervise you 24 hours a day, 7 day a week. Be a man. Think for yourself. Make him proud. Make his day. Love, honor & obey. All glory to the Alpha.Ā
(adapted fromĀ http://roadee.tumblr.com/post/17359255889/advice-for-slaves)
