Okay, so, more personal junk, cause tbh I just need the transandrophobes to understand. Yall know you're driving away other transfems too, right?
Like, I avoid transfem spaces over this, because yall fucking hurt my community, and I don't want to share a space with people that would do that.
I don't trust people that would stab other members of our community in the back. I can't.
If any transfem transandrophobes read this, you wanna know why transfem spaces are losing members? Look in the mirror, it's because of you, because we won't share space with hate.
Yall hurt our transmasc and nonbinary siblings way more than you hurt me, cause I can go to them to find community, and they can't seem to escape you; but you don't seem to care about that, so here we are. By hurting them, you hurt us too.
It pisses me off, but it's also just fucking humiliating, it's humiliating to see the depths that people just like me fucking sink to. Worse still, I know there was a time in my life where I'd have fallen for it, and I'm so fucking glad yall didn't reach me when I was that person, because it would have genuinely ruined me.
So just think about that, the next time you feel like bashing a transmasc person for no other reason but to take out your petty malice; you're destroying your own community in the process. Hate will eventually eat you alive.
Edit: Yall don't gotta be sorry, really! I wish the transandrophobes in our community would come around, but I'm not feeling starved for community at all. Yall are loving and caring and I'm lucky to have you, I don't want more, I just want us to feel safe <3
