a little bit of a long shot, forgive me. but, i am under the genderfluid umbrella. when im feeling more masculine, my attraction towards men is gay and my attraction towards women is labeled as azalean. But, when I spike up to boygirl, my attraction feels a bit more lesbian-ish? i don't like the label of lesbian though, nor lesboy. i was thinking something similar to gaybian but i haven't looked into that label much.. Do you have any other labels that might fit?
Here are a list of labels that could potentially fit:
Abrisexual - A fluid sexuality where the label changes, but the actual feelings of the sexuality do not (the gender(s) youâre attracted to donât change, just the label itself)
Novosexual - Someone whose sexual orientation is tied to changes in their gender identity; someone whose sexual orientation changes in response to their gender changing
Pollosexual - Someone who feels that they are multiple sexualities at once
Aurorasexual - A genderfluid lesbian that feels uncomfortable and/or dysphoric calling themself a lesbian when they are male-aligned or just in general
Gaybian/Velaurian - Someone who identifies as both gay/turian and a lesbian
Sappihillean - Someone who identifies as both sapphic (wlw/non-man L non-men) and achillean (mlm/non-woman L non-women)
Demilesboy - Someone who identifies partially as a boy and/or partially as a lesbian
Saphboy - Someone who feels connection to the term âboyâ and experiences their gender and orientation as sapphic; the sapphic equivalent of lesboy
Omnique - Someone whose gender identity and/or orientation change so that they will always be gay/queer
Anfisian - Someone who is wlw, wlm, mlw, and mlm; someone who is a woman and man, fluidly or simultaneously, and is attracted to women and men, fluidly or simultaneously
Femtussesual - A genderfluid individual who is attracted to women, women-aligned, and feminine people
Virtussexual - A genderfluid individual who is attracted to men, men-aligned, and masculine people
Wifamoric - Someone who experiences non-straight attraction to women and/or feminine people, but their attraction is fluid, flexible, or fluctuating in some way, however, their attraction to women tends to be the most constant, defining feature
If none of those sound right, feel free to send in another ask and I can do a deeper dive!