renuka i.

even if they wronged you, and it's justified, punishment isn't the goal. it takes a strong person to let that intention go. people who are cruel may deserve it. but YOU are not cruel. it's not your job to behave in ways that are outside of your character. so stop putting in the extra work to act like them. you have better things to do. - renuka i. it would require a lot of effort on your part to hand down punishments to people who have hurt you. wouldn't you rather be spending your time with people who love you than plotting against people who don't? they don't get to have a reaction out of you. you are not a puppet. go enjoy your life. you deserve it. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

go ahead, romanticize your life. reality is hard enough. take regular everyday moments and turn them into something magical. sipping tea, cooking, getting dressed, your commute, running errands - whatever it is. notice it, savour it. make a big deal out of it. - renuka i. some days, all we're doing is surviving. even the tiniest things feel hard. so whatever you were able to accomplish today, celebrate it. and if no one has told you yet - you're doing a great job. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

a reminder that the offers you get will not always match your worth. whether it be in love, life or career. be mindful of what you accept. - renuka i. just because it's offered doesn't mean you have to accept it. ask yourself if this is what you deserve. ask yourself if they deserve you. this is what it means to understand your value. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

we need to continue prying open the space we've created for mental health conversations to exist. the space isn't wide enough, its edges - not stretchy enough. we must, so that people can see that they're not alone. so that they can feel comfortable sharing their pain. so that they can feel safe asking for help. mental health resources need to be accessible. so that when someone is reaching out, there's someone reaching back. - renuka i. we live in a world where we're hyper-focused on the self. I, too am guilty of this - I speak about self care here all the time. but we don't always have to be responsible for taking care of ourselves. that is a huge undertaking, especially when you feel as if you've lost control. we should all be taking care of one another. and that includes our healthcare system, education system, and government. we all need to be involved. we all need to protect people when they're unable to protect themselves. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

your old friends didn't fit where you were headed. that's why you got new friends. but before you get all high and mighty about this decision, it isn't necessarily a positive one - if you're headed in the wrong direction. maybe there's a reason why your old friends stayed back as you continued on. while your new friends may seem supportive, they're ampliflying a path that doesn't serve you. so, is that friendship? - renuka i. as we get older, it's natural for some relationships to fall away as we evolve. but the question we need to ask first is - are you evolving? or are you feeding into the parts of you that are driven by arrogance? did you find friends that allowed it to expand, while your old friends questioned you about it? is this growth? is this friendship? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

people are going to be annoying. and it's okay to be frustrated by it. you're human, after all. but I pray that you do not lose your gentleness. it's one of the most beautiful things about you, about humanity. this world needs it. - renuka i. these days, it feels as if there's enough to be infuriated with. it's overwhelming, and naturally, we're going to react to it. but I hope you can return to a place of kindness as many times as you need to. don't shut the door on it. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

be done trying to stop people from making mistakes, from moving on. be done trying to make them apologize, make them return. the only thing we can do is control how we play a part in it all. remove yourself, and let the rest work itself out. - renuka i. I know it's hard, when you've invested so much of your life into something, into someone. but it is not your job to keep yourself tethered to people who don't want to be there. it is not your responsibility to monitor their growth or decline. it doesn't concern you anymore. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

teach people how to treat you. you don't want to be an option? stop being available as an option. more people joining the race for their affection? then you're not training to be first - you're dropping out. show people how to meet you at YOUR level. you won't be overextending to make up for THEM falling short. - renuka i. if they prefer to entertain everyone under the sun, let em. you just won't be one of them. because you're not one of many - you're one of one. and if they're passing up on that, then they wouldn't even know what to do with you if they got you in the first place. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

you've made a mistake, and you've owned up to it. that's a noble thing. but understand that you're not granted ease just because of an apology. you don't get to screw up, and face no consequences. people have been hurt, take the hit, work through it, redeem yourself. that is more noble than an apology alone. - renuka i. apologies without changed behaviour isn't accountability. we're allowed to make mistakes, but if you've hurt someone in the process, what are you going to do to rectify it? and what are you going to do to ensure that it doesn't happen again? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

not everyone that hurts you feels bad about it. sit with that for a second. if they're not bothered by it, is it even worth holding on to that hurt? if they're not bothered by it, is that apology even worth anything? let it go. - renuka i. people who don't feel remorse after hurting others don't deserve any more of your energy. they're never going to feel any different. it's a waste making space for that pain in your body. remove it. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

there's a difference between being private, and being secretive. and that difference is based on the "why". WHY don't you want people to know about your life? because it's personal? or because you're embarrassed? - renuka i. I'm a private person" vs. "I'm not proud of what I'm doing, so I don't want people to know about it." "What does everyone think?" vs. "I don't want anyone getting involved." inviting people into your new life vs. keeping people on the outside. merging all aspects of your life vs. keeping it separate. hiding. declining events so you don't have to explain. asking people not to tell anyone or post anything. and finally, if you have to convince yourself that you're private, not secretive - ask yourself why you need convincing. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

you've been searching for the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, but that person is you, first and foremost. if you don't know how to love, respect, honour, understand yourself, how will you show someone else how to treat you? - renuka i. do YOU want to be with yourself? someone else can't love you into loving yourself. that's your job. and it should be a priority on your list before you even venture out to find a partner. how else will you know who to invite into your life? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

the truth is, people are loving you even if you don't recognize it right away as love. sometimes it looks like regular everyday things. like remembering when you have something important happening, texting to see if you got home okay, leaving the last piece for you. sometimes it's mundane, sometimes it's quiet, sometimes it's behind the scenes... but it's there. there for you to collect, to cherish. and all you have to do is pay attention. - renuka i. you may be frustrated, looking for traditional gestures of love. but maybe people are showing you they love you in their own way. pay attention. you might be missing out on tiny acts that when identified, will fill your heart with gratitude. it's important to mention that traditional gestures of love like saying I love you, physical touch, being romantic - are also important and valid. get to know your love language and your person's as well (your family and your friends, too). you'll be more accommodating once you learn how others show affection. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

there are two ways to experience relationships. the first one being, to make mistakes with the wrong people, learn from them, until you meet the most suitable one for you. and then there's a second option: live your life single until you find someone that's worth sharing it with. neither option is right or wrong. it all depends on how you're willing to spend your time. sometimes, we forget that option two is available. so, here's your reminder. - renuka i. apparently, there's nothing more devastating than being single in this world lol. there is, though: giving up your time, energy and peace to people and relationships that aren't healthy for you, that aren't fulfilling for you. something to think about. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

it is an honour to provide for humanity. why? because not everyone is in a position to help. this is a privilege that we've been granted, yet we perceive it as a burden. - renuka i. if you have the means to help - either financially, with your expertise or with your time - take this as your responsibility as a member of humanity, to do your part. you may not always be in the position to help. there could come a day when you're the one receiving it. consider this a blessing. follow for daily inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

the people closest to us are usually the ones we take out our frustrations on. because they're the most forgiving. they're the ones most likely to stick around even when we're unkind to them. this is your reminder not to take advantage of this. this is the person you should not be taking for granted. if you're not circling back around to cherish this person's tolerance of you at your worst, THEY WILL LEAVE. and you will regret it. - renuka i. you're allowed to be frustrated, you're allowed to be upset. it's normal to lose your cool, be unreasonable, snap at others. but we need to be cognizant of our not-so-great behaviour, and rectify it when we're calm again. people aren't living for YOU. they're living alongside you. *does not apply to abusive relationships* follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here