#renukawrites

you've been searching for the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with, but that person is you, first and foremost. if you don't know how to love, respect, honour, understand yourself, how will you show someone else how to treat you? - renuka i. do YOU want to be with yourself? someone else can't love you into loving yourself. that's your job. and it should be a priority on your list before you even venture out to find a partner. how else will you know who to invite into your life? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

the truth is, people are loving you even if you don't recognize it right away as love. sometimes it looks like regular everyday things. like remembering when you have something important happening, texting to see if you got home okay, leaving the last piece for you. sometimes it's mundane, sometimes it's quiet, sometimes it's behind the scenes... but it's there. there for you to collect, to cherish. and all you have to do is pay attention. - renuka i. you may be frustrated, looking for traditional gestures of love. but maybe people are showing you they love you in their own way. pay attention. you might be missing out on tiny acts that when identified, will fill your heart with gratitude. it's important to mention that traditional gestures of love like saying I love you, physical touch, being romantic - are also important and valid. get to know your love language and your person's as well (your family and your friends, too). you'll be more accommodating once you learn how others show affection. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

it is an honour to provide for humanity. why? because not everyone is in a position to help. this is a privilege that we've been granted, yet we perceive it as a burden. - renuka i. if you have the means to help - either financially, with your expertise or with your time - take this as your responsibility as a member of humanity, to do your part. you may not always be in the position to help. there could come a day when you're the one receiving it. consider this a blessing. follow for daily inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

you have the power to change your circumstances. you don't have to sit there and take it. sometimes, we're so used to being stuck that we forget that exits can be created, and taken. - renuka i. leaving any situation we're used to isn't easy. and I don't want to make it sound simple. I just want to remind us all that it's always available as an option for us should we need it. you are not trapped. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

be done trying to stop people from making mistakes, from moving on. be done trying to make them apologize, make them return. the only thing we can do is control how we play a part in it all. remove yourself, and let the rest work itself out. - renuka i. I know it's hard, when you've invested so much of your life into something, into someone. but it is not your job to keep yourself tethered to people who don't want to be there. it is not your responsibility to monitor their growth or decline. it doesn't concern you anymore. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

it's okay to be afraid before taking a leap of faith. in this case, fear isn't a bad thing. it means you want something badly enough, and what happens if you don't get it? as long as it stays a dream, it'll never be crushed, right? but dreams are meant to be fulfilled. not to float slightly ahead of you for the rest of life. you've got to try. - renuka i. what's the worst that can happen? failure. but failure is nothing but a lesson. you can try again, you can modify your approach or it may be the stepping stone to realizing that there's a whole other dream that you want to invest in instead. take the risk. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

you've made a mistake, and you've owned up to it. that's a noble thing. but understand that you're not granted ease just because of an apology. you don't get to screw up, and face no consequences. people have been hurt, take the hit, work through it, redeem yourself. that is more noble than an apology alone. - renuka i. apologies without changed behaviour isn't accountability. we're allowed to make mistakes, but if you've hurt someone in the process, what are you going to do to rectify it? and what are you going to do to ensure that it doesn't happen again? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here