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when you hear the word freedom you probably think about leaving your work to go to the beach and never come back. but isolating yourself from the world is not what freedom is.

your understanding of freedom might be different which is totally normal since we are all unique. but there’s one thing we all have to be aware of. freedom is not escaping. you can’t just ignore your work or your school because you want to be free. it’s not freedom, it’s just tricking yourself and hoping all the things that bother you will fade away eventually. it’s like throwing all the dirty clothes and stuff in your closet so your mother doesn’t get mad at you. maybe you can continue like that for some time but when the truth finds you, I mean, when your mother decides to tidy up your closets too, it’ll be so much more painful to face it than it’d be if you haven’t tricked your own self. you’ll have to calm your mother down, get all those things out of your closet again and clean the room. so you get tired twice as much because you wanted to be free at the time your mother told you. do you really think this is freedom? if so we could say all the drug addicts are free because they live whatever they dream of. does this make sense? we call them addicts, are they free?

you may wonder why I’m talking about addicts right now. as I said in my previous speech and in everywhere in my life, your brain has another independent personality other than you. it loves the comfort and laziness. it loves pretty lies, that’s why when you ignore a truth just because you don’t like it you become addicted to those pink pretty lies. you create your own  world and you start to live in it. seems cool, doesn’t it? you’re living in your own world, making up your own rules and cultures in any way you want. that’d be fun for a week but after that things get harder for you. because your brain gets used to the comfort it thinks it has so much that you start to forget about the reality. your brain questions the attitude of people in the real world. it refuses the facts like you have to work to earn something. it believes you already have it all and even if you don’t, you’ll die anyways, why does it matter, right? and if this gets too far, you lose the whole control of your real world and life. people start to take care of you. they make you do things they want because you can’t properly decide. so you lose all your freedom at the end of a road which you started by thinking about getting your freedom: wasting twice as much time to things you don’t like to do because you tried to lie to yourself by throwing everything in the closet and pretending everything is tidied up.

I had a TEDx event two weeks ago and I decided it’d be great to share my speech with you too. It’s basically about self development but you might think it says a different thing since we’re all unique! It’s okay!

Please don’t forget to write your feedbacks. Any rbs or likes are appreciated too!

There’s a saying that newborn babies are fresh new papers and they’re capable of learning. This stupid thing sat down in the center of the society and somehow made us all believe and accept that we can not change or develop ourselves if we’re older than two years. But, nope. No matter how old you are, no matter how is your lifestyle, everything is in your hands. Now I can hear you asking how are we going to do this and maybe laughing at me for thinking something so innocent. Or some ideas going through your head whispering, leave these things girl go study and get somewhere to earn enough money.

Keeping yourself away from the routines and letting your brain be active through the day is actually so much easier than you think. The things you do like writing or speaking is not something totally controlled by your brain. For example I learned writing when I was five and after a few years my brain just passed it to another organ of my neurological system. I’m not truly using my brain when I am just copying some notes from a paper to another. It’s just a reflex that I do automatically. There are billions of examples like driving car, riding bike, walking, blinking… And these are the basic things that we all do through the day. I’m not asking you to ride a bike if you’re using a car or skate in the office instead of walking.. You don’t have to be so hard on yourself to start major changes in your life.

Your brain gets activated and starts learning when you do something slightly different. You can walk home through a different road than you usually do. When you’re leaving the work, your brain will be like “OK get home and sleep that’s what you live for…” until you turn the second corner instead of the third. At that point, your brain is going to be shocked, “Omg what is this human doing that’s a new ROAD OMG LOOK THERE’S A DOGGIEEE!”.. and even though you don’t realize it, your mind is going to be refreshed. Changing a street to home is going to activate the brain and open up all your senses so you can seriously enjoy what you basically do. You’ll be able to focus on your work better than ever, you’ll get more creative about anything and you won’t feel so depressed or stressed.

What I’m trying to say is, just do little changes like changing the street to walk by or using the toilet in the fifth floor instead of third… That will activate your brain, your senses will be turned on. And trust me that’s the biggest step you can take to develop yourself. Turn your brain on and let it do the magic. But, immediately see a doctor if you seriously hear your brain talking to you in a deep way.

05.09.18 [31/60] || It’s been a month since I started this blog! I’ve managed to save some of my grades since then ✨

I had a TEDx event two weeks ago and I decided it’d be great to share my speech with you too. It’s basically about self development but you might think it says a different thing since we’re all unique! It’s okay!

Please don’t forget to write your feedbacks. Any rbs or likes are appreciated too!

There’s a saying that newborn babies are fresh new papers and they’re capable of learning. This stupid thing sat down in the center of the society and somehow made us all believe and accept that we can not change or develop ourselves if we’re older than two years. But, nope. No matter how old you are, no matter how is your lifestyle, everything is in your hands. Now I can hear you asking how are we going to do this and maybe laughing at me for thinking something so innocent. Or some ideas going through your head whispering, leave these things girl go study and get somewhere to earn enough money.

Keeping yourself away from the routines and letting your brain be active through the day is actually so much easier than you think. The things you do like writing or speaking is not something totally controlled by your brain. For example I learned writing when I was five and after a few years my brain just passed it to another organ of my neurological system. I’m not truly using my brain when I am just copying some notes from a paper to another. It’s just a reflex that I do automatically. There are billions of examples like driving car, riding bike, walking, blinking… And these are the basic things that we all do through the day. I’m not asking you to ride a bike if you’re using a car or skate in the office instead of walking.. You don’t have to be so hard on yourself to start major changes in your life.

Your brain gets activated and starts learning when you do something slightly different. You can walk home through a different road than you usually do. When you’re leaving the work, your brain will be like “OK get home and sleep that’s what you live for…” until you turn the second corner instead of the third. At that point, your brain is going to be shocked, “Omg what is this human doing that’s a new ROAD OMG LOOK THERE’S A DOGGIEEE!”.. and even though you don’t realize it, your mind is going to be refreshed. Changing a street to home is going to activate the brain and open up all your senses so you can seriously enjoy what you basically do. You’ll be able to focus on your work better than ever, you’ll get more creative about anything and you won’t feel so depressed or stressed.

What I’m trying to say is, just do little changes like changing the street to walk by or using the toilet in the fifth floor instead of third… That will activate your brain, your senses will be turned on. And trust me that’s the biggest step you can take to develop yourself. Turn your brain on and let it do the magic. But, immediately see a doctor if you seriously hear your brain talking to you in a deep way.

when you hear the word freedom you probably think about leaving your work to go to the beach and never come back. but isolating yourself from the world is not what freedom is.

your understanding of freedom might be different which is totally normal since we are all unique. but there’s one thing we all have to be aware of. freedom is not escaping. you can’t just ignore your work or your school because you want to be free. it’s not freedom, it’s just tricking yourself and hoping all the things that bother you will fade away eventually. it’s like throwing all the dirty clothes and stuff in your closet so your mother doesn’t get mad at you. maybe you can continue like that for some time but when the truth finds you, I mean, when your mother decides to tidy up your closets too, it’ll be so much more painful to face it than it’d be if you haven’t tricked your own self. you’ll have to calm your mother down, get all those things out of your closet again and clean the room. so you get tired twice as much because you wanted to be free at the time your mother told you. do you really think this is freedom? if so we could say all the drug addicts are free because they live whatever they dream of. does this make sense? we call them addicts, are they free?

you may wonder why I’m talking about addicts right now. as I said in my previous speech and in everywhere in my life, your brain has another independent personality other than you. it loves the comfort and laziness. it loves pretty lies, that’s why when you ignore a truth just because you don’t like it you become addicted to those pink pretty lies. you create your own  world and you start to live in it. seems cool, doesn’t it? you’re living in your own world, making up your own rules and cultures in any way you want. that’d be fun for a week but after that things get harder for you. because your brain gets used to the comfort it thinks it has so much that you start to forget about the reality. your brain questions the attitude of people in the real world. it refuses the facts like you have to work to earn something. it believes you already have it all and even if you don’t, you’ll die anyways, why does it matter, right? and if this gets too far, you lose the whole control of your real world and life. people start to take care of you. they make you do things they want because you can’t properly decide. so you lose all your freedom at the end of a road which you started by thinking about getting your freedom: wasting twice as much time to things you don’t like to do because you tried to lie to yourself by throwing everything in the closet and pretending everything is tidied up.