im about to swing a bat at a hornets nest, but.
transmisandry/transandrophobia is an important and real thing to talk about and people who say otherwise do not understand intersectionality.
transmasculine people face specific kinds of discrimination and hatred because of being transmasculine.
this is not a claim that they have it better or worse than others - it's simply language to speak about those specific struggles.
there is a word for misogyny towards black women specifically (misogynoir), because they face specific challenges for being black women. there is a word for transphobia towards transfeminine people specifically (transmisogyny) because they face specific challenges for being trans women. these are good and useful terms, because they help describe specific issues faced by minorities that the more broad words do not cover adequately. it is the same for transmisandry.
i think there is a misunderstanding because it includes the word misandry, which is...not systemically real in the same sense of misogyny. men do face discrimination (see: any non-white man), but not generally on the basis of sex/gender. misandry as a term has historically been used to oppose the feminist movement. i think this makes people defensive, whether or not they realize that.
but the thing is, that's not what transmisandry as a term is trying to do or describe. transmasculine people face specific challenges because they are transmasculine. this includes *anyone* transmasculine, whether they are trans men or not. anyone taking T and/or socially becoming masculine from a neutral or feminine start faces discrimination specific to that (nonbinary people and women taking T, butch nonbinary people and women, he/him nonbinary people and women, etc).
it overlaps but is not the same as the experiences as those faced transfeminine people. transphobia describes it, but is overly broad, making it hard to discuss specific issues. transmisandry is a more specific term for describing specific issues.
it is not a claim that anyone 'has it worse'. it is not counter in any way to feminism. it is not a fake term. it is not invalidating any other term.
it is a specific term for specific challenges a specific minority faces because of being that specific minority. that's it.
it's unfortunate that the word misandry seems to be managing to single-handedly skew opinions against the term. but misandry and transmisandry are entirely different concepts.
so in the words of BDG...if you needed me to tell you that, im glad i told you that!
if you choose to keep being shitty even after being informed...fuck you.
























