Red Charlie’s Mistress

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i actually like when boys come fast. it’s the cutest thing and not shameful at all. like i will just make you come again. don’t hold back on me. we can do it again; and again and again and again, until you can’t remember what day of the week it is and don’t know whether you want me to stop or keep going

to the girls under this post who complained that they get frustrated and how “unfair” it is: first of all, get yourself a man, who will eat you out between rounds and who’ll get hart again doing so; second of all, yes I’m well aware of the orgasm gap and how inconsiderate many men are, but expecting your partner to “perform” for you every time you have sex is also inconsiderate; have you ever considered that maybe sex would be better for him, if he didn’t always had to hold back midway? If there wasn’t so much fucking pressure on men to make it good for you? because the good guys are anxious and worried as fuck and feel like they have to make it all about you. so it’s good for you. I personally don’t want my partner to think about his grandma or baseball in the middle of sex just to keep from coming. I want him to be in the moment with me and if that means that he comes supposedly ‘early’ so be it. I’d much rather him doing so and just saying straight up that it was too good and he couldn’t hold it because I feel so fucking amazing and how much he loves it, than him frantically concentrating on not coming while having sex with me. I don’t want him to put on a performance for my benefit, I want it to be intimate and real and that theres absolutely nothing on his mind except me. he can still do all the things for my benefit later. I want to completely consume his mind in those moments. I want his head to go “her. her. her. i love her so fucking much. she smells so good, how does she always smell so good. love her. feels amazing. she’s so beautiful. her. fuck. her. her. her.” there shouldn’t be a single thought that’s not about me in those moments. also don’t apologise, when it happens. just tell her “well, this is your fault, because you’re just too damn hot. you make me lose my mind” seriously people, sex should be about pleasure, intimacy and connection; stop stressing and fretting so much about it. just relax, have a little compassion for each other, be aware of the social expectations attached to sex and how bad they influence a good sex life and work against this stupid pressure, talk openly about wants, worries and expectations. simply be with each other and enjoy it.