Unless it’s a joke or re-claiming a slur, if a cishet person said it, and it’s queerphobic, it’s still queerphobic when a queer person says it.
If it’s homophobic for a cishet to tell a trans man that he’s “not really gay”, then it’s also homophobic if a cis gay man says it, even if he’s gay himself.
If it’s transphobic for a cis person to tell a non-binary person they “aren’t actually trans”, then it’s still transphobic if a trans person says it, even if they are trans themself.
Queer and trans people are not exempt from being homophobic, transphobic, biphobic, acephobic, etc.
If someone calls you out for saying/doing something homo/transphobic and you respond with “but I’m gay” or “but I’m trans”, you are literally no better then queerphobic cishets who say stuff like “but I have a gay friend and he agrees with me” and stuff like that.
everything is /srs
Someone said it. Hate comes from everywhere, sometimes within our own community. We need to love and learn from each other instead of pointless insults and harassment, much love <3












