quiet advice

this blog is no longer active. it is now an archive of past advice/suggestions. however you ended up here, i wish you well.

If you wanted the blog to keep running, would you be willing to let others run it?

If you don't mind a suggestion, why not keep this blog opened, but just leave it as a bit of an archive?

quick update

How can you call this an advice blog you literally say idk a bunch of times

I need a little advice. See me and my best friend used to say "I love you" a lot to each other , it was normal and casual and everything. She once told me she doesn't say it much because she doesn't know how to handle someone loving her, platonically or otherwise, but that was years ago. But recently whenever I say ily she just replies with emojis or "thanks" and it hurts me. I wrote her a letter saying it hurts me but I'm not sure I should give it to her or not. What do you think?

ive been convinced that im ace my whole life, but recently my friends have suspected that i like girls, and they might be right. but im biologically female and not out as nonbinary, and live in a homophobic and conservative country. is this a phase?

I don't know if you're a girl or a guy but everyone is literally getting pregnant. I feel so out of the loop. I also feel ugly because everyone has someone and I don't have anyone. I NEVER get the guys I want. They never like me the way I like them and they think I'm disgusting. I'm trying to lose weight to make myself cuter/prettier/more attractive but it's not working for me. I feel ugly all the time. I'm 23 turning 24.. I feel like a loser TBH

Do you believe that BLACK LIVES MATTER?

hi! not sure if you can answer this, but i have a dilemma and i'm looking for multiple opinions. i'm looking into helping start a GSA at my school. i'm out to my parents and most of my friends, but my parents aren't all that supportive of me being totally out (we don't really talk about it). there's a one meeting before school starts to talk about getting it up and running and then regular meetings after that. should i lie to my parents about what i'm doing or tell them and risk being shot down?

I will not be able to cram all my issues into this but basically I am depressed and suicidal. I always want to do *bad* things to feel cool and I have never cut myself but I have really wanted to. It's just my fear of blood that holds me back.

why is my songwriting not flowing? I am so inspired but the words will not come out and everything sounds the same. please...

how can the one who loved you so much change to hurting u over and over again. he told me he loved me everyday we were so in love. then 3 months later he barely texts me, no more good morning texts her stop checking in on me. what did I do? he loved me so fucking much. how does someone change? he is using me but he loved me so much. why would he change. how can someone change so much.

Some days I dread coming home from work even though work can be drag. Only because I know when I get home I'll get yelled at, for at least one thing.but I can't yell.I'm chastised and made the enemy when I speak in a tone of voice that may be a bit louder when I'm serious. And when I make plans with someone else for an hour they get angry with me. Or when one thing goes wrong the plans we make together are null and void. Work is my escape.....