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let's just blame the women! don't ever blame the government for not backing them up despite knowing this happens, and fuck all the women who are already stay at home moms! they were stupid enough to do this so now they can suffer the consequences mwahahaha!

you people sound so fucking evil, let's fucking help the women who are already in that situation and stop demonizing SAHMs because that's exactly how you get young confused women to become tradwives, by telling them that it's super super horrible, they double down on their christian ideals and you're literally proving them right, christians have this belief that they're always being persecuted and whatever seems harder is surely the better path

also did you even stop for a minute to consider why so many women are going back to being SAHMs? because i see a lot of misogyny when people talk about them, but they're literally just escaping a soul crushing job that makes their boss richer and them miserable, it separates them from their kids and their hobbies and a lot of them are genuinely traumatized people who cannot work, of course they're going to take the chance at everything free and no schedule work from home opportunity

i truly hope you don't eat meat and then say poor cows because it's literally the same thing

and of course you're a lesbian talking about male sex drive

man does something objectively good that lesbians have been crying about for decades:

sure, the woman who kept saying no and got raped anyways, the literal prostitute and the woman who has sex with her boyfriend voluntarily because she thinks she has to, are the same thing, you sure aren't talking out of absolute ignorance or an incredibly narrow minded trauma mindset

if you teach your boyfriend that no means yes, why the fuck would he think otherwise? i've met men who had ex girlfriends who did this and were so confused and shocked when they later on dated girls who were actually communicative about their feelings in bed, they realized the ex was literally letting herself get raped and he had no fucking clue because why the fuck would he?

it's funny because i've dated men who have like actual real trauma from this and at the smallest hint of me not being enthusiastic about sex they would immediately drop it and it took a lot of insisting from my behalf to get them in the mood again because sometimes i was just actually tired or wanted to try something different, not out of sex drive

the world makes so much more sense when you stop thinking all men have some sort of built-in woman hating, child raping chip inside them

and i know for a fact if i ever get a reply it's going to be either an ad hominem or something along the lines of me being a bootlicker or a pickme

because that's what that trauma narrow mindset does to you, the world is black and white, people are either evil or good, you can either hate all males or love all males

what a silly view of life and society and history itself

of course i'd say a vast majority of males are incredibly misogynistic, homosocial and overall stupid, incompetent and disgusting human beings, a lot of them are actual rapists because they do not see us as human, they aren't even sociopathic, just absurdly misogynistic

of course every single girl needs to have some distrust of men instilled onto them, it's the healthiest thing possible, but it's also miserable to make them believe literally all men are rapists, especially hetero girls, because it creates the perfect environment for this kind of coercive sex shit and tradwifery and all the golden cage type of bullshit

there are good men out there, there are good fathers, good teachers, doctors, philosophers, politicians, there are good males, they are just as silenced and hated by misogynistic males, aka, most males, like women are

there's a derogatory term for good men in every single language, for sensitive, kind, generous, nurturing men, the most modern one i can think of in english is "cuck", the very idea of a man being a decent human being means he likes to watch his girlfriend get fucked by someone else, but sure, they're all evil rapists

Stop the rhetoric that all males are some sort of zombified drones that have a brain wired to rape children, for fuck's sake.

You know damn well most trans women are harmless, sure they're self absorbed and will never know what is like to be a woman and they say some stupid shit sometimes, but you know very damn well most of them aren't horrible rapists, most of them are gay men with internalized homophobia, a lot of them are hetero or bi men with internalized homophobia, a very small percentage is in it to be malicious or predatory. That small minority needs to be called out and punished for their shit but framing it as "all trans women evil" is fucking stupid and attention seeking oh my goddd.

You know most people who are pro trans act out of good faith and you're bitter because most people are simply not feminists, they don't think about this whole thing the same way you and I do, they don't see female erasure, they see a bunch of angry women who hate trans people for literally no reason other than existing.

And what's worse is that that's exactly what most of radblr and other online radical feminist circlejerks are.

Does your feminism includes trans people? Or you just don't see yourself as transphobic thanks your insane skills at mental gymnastics?

You're a bunch of puritan American weirdos and you have ruined this tag beyond recognition.

I love my trans friends, I love my male friends, I don't want to yeet 50% of humanity out of existence, I don't think all trans women are horrible monsters who want to groom kids.

Despite being childfree and somewhat an anti-natalist, I don't think women who want to have kids because they love children and have a healthy desire to become mothers are stupid or bad or evil or anything, I actually wish them the very best.

Most of radblr is a bunch of minors and very young women hallucinating about male violence to the point where they wholeheartedly think all men are violent pedo rapists.

The older ones have very little life experience and it shows, there's some women pushing 40 years old in this community who have been withdrawn from normal society for decades that think they, the people who do not leave their houses, have no friends and interact with no one, are the most qualified to talk about how society works.

like I have no idea how much you need to have your head up your ass to think that "it's rare for men to submit to women" I can't imagine being this fucking dense and out of touch with life