I am your Queen of Spades

hugs from behind

forehead kisses

hand holding

loving gazes

sweet nothings

moments where it’s too intimate to say a word

You’re a loving wife. You love your husband. And for the most part, you have a great marriage. Ideal, even.

But he doesn’t like sex…or he’s not good at it…or you are bored with him and his routine approach to your craving body…not to mention his premature finish every time that leaves you unfulfilled and sad.

Trust me, many of us are in the same boat.

Just accept it and adapt. Find a partner in crime with whom you can commiserate in private. Naked.

Not someone too close. Not a neighbor or family friend or boss. Find someone more discreet and external to your circle.

Then get together and fuck when you can. No strings. No conditions. No angst and anxiety.

If the schedules sync, then meet and fuck. If family and work and activities and a global pandemic get in the way sometimes, that’s OK. You can circle back to fuck more when convenient.

If nothing else, the buildup of anticipation will make the eventual meetup even more explosive.

Don’t overcomplicate things. Get together to fuck, and cum…then go home to your life.