dodie is awesometown

my mom: comes home and puts the groceries down on the table really hard

parent: comes home and slams the door with more force than usual

my mom: stands on the porch with her arms crossed with that im very angry at you face tm on me already knowing what she is going to yell at me for: 

my mom: walks with heavy steps through the house.

my mom : walks loud & fast in the hallway towards my room

stop asking people’s pronouns. real life isnt the internet. asking someone’s pronouns in real life with people around is fucking degrading. we all know you wouldnt ask a cis person’s pronouns. when you ask, a trans person hears “i’m not sure if you’re actually the gender you’re presenting as. do you mind if i embarrass you and get really invasive on a personal level?” not to mention you might out the person youre asking to whoever else is around.