Pythia

It's rude. You're making someone take their time to read something you couldn't bother to write. You're telling them they were so unimportant you couldn't be bothered to actually take the time to say something yourself. And frankly, you're lying about it while you're at it.

You'll have a single mother of three who's fleeing a DV relationship. She has no recent work history because her ex kept her barefoot and pregnant. She's struggling with depression+PTSD while trying to find work in a horrific job market.

Now I have to be the one to tell her "Dept of Social Services insists every child over the age of 5 have their own bedroom, so you'll have to get a 4 bedroom, which will likely cost $5000/mo. You will get a housing voucher that covers 50% of the cost, so $2500/mo. You will need to make $90k/yr to comfortably afford this"

You and her both know a full-time minimum wage job comes out to $32k/yr in your area and most of that is going to go towards child care so she can work a job that will never pay enough to cover her living expenses. Even if she worked two full-time jobs, she'd still be ~$30k/yr short of the required income.

She can do everything right, she can work her ass off, she can get benefits, and it still won't make a difference. Her abusive ex is going to get the kids in the divorce simply because he has a steady income and home.

Buddy

Kim Mi Kyung, age 61:

Kim Sung Ryung, age 58:

Kim Hye Soo, age 54:

Jung Young Joo, age 53:

Kim Yeo Jin, age 52:

Jeon Hye Jin, age 48:

Lim Soo Jung, age 45:

Cha Chung Hwa, age 44:

Salon de Holmes, a kdrama co produced by Lee Jung Jae and Jung Woosung's Artist Company is now on air.

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When a boy sits down and waits for a girl to wake up and makes sure he is at a lower level than her, it's a sign of respect and affection for her and her feelings.

It helps her feel like she has control of the situation to put her more at ease.

So when Zuko chooses to sit down on the rock and wait all night for Katara to wake up, and stay seated until she walks away, thats him showing her ultimate respect and control of the situation.

She could have told him to just leave and he would have.

It's the same way he did for Iroh.

Those are Zuko's two favorite people, Katara and Iroh, and he was willing to put in the work to get the forgiveness and trust from both and to show them both high respect and that he messed up and will earn their forgiveness.

The significance of the crown prince doing this for the last known southern water tribe waterbender and Chief Hakoda's daughter.