Aspiring rich bitch

why is it considered a flex to have a j*b. like NOO i don’t want to work. who fucking loves working, it genuinely baffles me. looks like a bunch of npc slave stuck in a matrix to me

like why do i need to work hard to get what i want. stop that mentality bullshit right now.

i don’t need to “work hard” to get what i want. I WANT AN EASY LIFE SO I’LL GET IT. I DESERVE PANDORA

THANK YOU LOA & SHIFTING. my fucking everything

What helped me get out of the victim mindset for good.

Like many of you, I was stuck in the godforsaken “loop of doom” for years, eventually ruining my mental health and burning myself out on the entire self realization and manifestation thing. Seriously, it was the hardest point in my life. I couldn’t understand how if I was being god like I just “knew” I was being, why the fuck was nothing changing? Why did I wake up every day still feeling such heaviness and lack? I couldn’t understand why I didn’t feel any better knowing who my true self was and no longer being the illusory self (character) Everyone said “once you truly realize who you are, the feeling of lack dissipates and you no longer have such intense desire”—but I felt the opposite.

Well if it’s not obvious, I clearly wasn’t being who I thought I was being. It was the character cosplaying as something it wasn’t aka God. I didn’t even realize it for a long time. It wasn’t until I began probing and asking myself questions that I realized what was going on.

Heres some things I want you to sit down with and ask yourself and I want you to be brutally honest with yourself:

“Would God be reacting like this to this thing?”

“Would God be doubting their decision?”

“Would God be HOPING they’ll receive what they want?”

“Would God make a decision and then start doubting their authority?”

The answer is no, absolutely fucking not. God is not a victim and never could be. God doesn’t suffer. If God is all there is—if God is the one and only authority—if God is the creator of all things, why the fuck would they give their authority away to something they created? Something that couldn’t even exist without them? Something that isn’t even a real thing— An illusion

Do you see what I’m talking about now?

What I want you to do, if only for a day—I want you to approach every single situation, negative feeling/emotion/thought and I want you to ask yourself how God would handle that thing. Just act like you’re God for a day. And I want you to hear me when I say this next part because its very important okay?

You’re not actually pretending to be God because you actually ARE God and you need to get accustomed to actually living and thinking from that perspective. If you don’t like calling yourself God, call yourself whatever you want that implies you’re up there on Gods level.

Any sort of frustration, despair, hopelessness, fear, doubt, worry, lack, sadness, etc. is your #1 indicator that you are thinking from the wrong identity and as long as you’re thinking from the wrong identity you’re going to continue to suffer.

Your human meatsuit along with all of your thoughts, feelings and emotions are no more real than this bed I’m sitting on.

Let that marinate. All are objects WITHIN Awareness, YOU, my love, as the fleshy meatsack you think you are is just another object within Awareness. It just doesn’t feel that way because it probably feels like you’re located in the skull. But God/Awareness/YOU are everywhere.

“I’d do anything for you.”

“Ha. Don’t think too highly of yourself. Just because I crave your company every now and then, doesn’t mean you’re my weakness. You’re not.”

“I can’t control myself around you. Don’t even want to.”

“Fiiiiine. I’ll do it. For you. Just for you.”

“Why do you have to make keeping a distance from you so damn difficult? I’m trying my hardest and you just…”

“That was but a moment of weakness. Think nothing of it.”

“Having a weak spot for someone doesn’t equate to wanting to be with them. Those are two completely different things.”

“Why can’t I say ‘no’ to you?”

“It scares me to see how far I’m willing to go for you.”

“No, wait. Stay- Stay back. I need to think rationally.” “...What’s that got to do with me?”

“You just can’t stay away from me for too long, huh?”

“My knees have gone a bit weak. Do you mind holding me?”

“It’s like… You have this power over me, and I- I guess I’m wary of where it might lead.”

“I don’t care about anything but you.”

“No other person makes me feel both weak and strong.”

“Stop it. Can’t you see that staying away from you is torture for me too?”

“I’m weak for you.” 

“You have me all wrapped around your finger.”

“I don’t want to scare you away with my… infatuation.”

“Right now I think you could probably talk me into anything.”

“You’ll be the death of me, [name].”

“You’re the only one I have opened up to like this.”

“Aren’t you at least a little ashamed of how blatantly you’re exploiting my feelings for you?”

“For you, I’ll take on any challenge.”

“(Fuck.) I need you to say that/make that sound again.”

i hear you're a good kisser.

are you staring at my lips?

how about a kiss for old time's sake?

maybe we could experiment a little.

have you ever thought about kissing me?

is there even an "us?"

a little bird told me you're a really good kisser.

could you see me as... more than just a friend?

what's a little fooling around between friends?

i'll admit, i have thought about you like that.

kissing you sounds like a very good idea.

i've been meaning to ask you out for ages.

maybe we could... see what happens.

there's no harm in a little experimentation.

did you want to kiss me back then?

for what it's worth, i really enjoyed the kiss and i wouldn't mind doing that again sometime.

could we pretend this is our first kiss?

maybe we could go on a date sometime.

you could start by coming closer.

just wondering what you taste like.

i saw you looking at me earlier.

could we talk about... us?

i'm not interested in anyone but you.

i bet if we tried, we could make it work.

a kiss won't kill us.

wanna makeout?

quick, kiss me before they walk over here.

i've wanted to kiss you for a long time now.

i never had the courage to ask you if you'd kiss me.

could i keep seeing you after this?

i really enjoyed it, by the way.

you're a much better kisser than i expected.

well, that got out of hand quickly.

maybe we should redo our first kiss.

next time, we should make it a date.

can i kiss you?

kissing sounds really fun right now.

have you been kissed before?

i never liked kissing until you.

you are... unbelievably good at that.

give me a minute to catch my breath.

your heart is racing.

are you okay? you look very flustered.

are my cheeks burning?

‘Talking to my friends’ I literally pretend im talking to friends about my desires. And this can go on for 2m or 2hrs. What can i say? i love talking. But i actually feel it for real, like it’s actually happening.

Facts about me Omg i love this one. Basically you go on your notes app and write ‘facts about me’ and write down your desires as if you have them. It’s like a fact file. And you can put pictures in as well to help the whole visual side of things. And whenever you want to or have doubts, you can have a scroll through and remind yourself of what you have.

The shopping cart method Honestly i used to do this a lot as a kid lmaoo. Learned how fun it is to live in my imagination fasttt. But basically you go on any shopping app you want, i normally use amazon or romwe tbh, and once you have added everything you want you can just rant about all of things you have brought.

That’s me method I know someone talked about this method a while ago so creds to them. But i love this one! You collect all the photos you feel resemble your desires, this can be on pinterest or your photos (i do both) and every now and then you can look thru and be like “omg that’s my boyfriend, and that’s my new face, and omg that’s my small waist” etcc

Pinterest method I loveee this one. Basically you create a board and call it ‘my life’ or ‘my stuff’ or whatever and create loads of different sections like ‘my boyfriend” ‘my new phone’ etc etc and it just helps you visualise and see your desires as yours.

The interview method hehe i think this one is cool. You just pretend you’re being interviewed about your desires. And you rant about what’s it’s like to have your desires.

this is true like i can’t even exaggerate it.. even before seeing this post i started to do this, and i literally shifted for the first time because of that

This is a masterlist to help you , elevate your mindset. It only works if you actually implement it , just watching videos and daydreaming, will not.

I'm always open to suggestions to add any videos to this , just send me an ask or a comment

how to master your emotional intelligence

"friends" to watch out for

you are a queen , u were born one

bye bye lazy girl era

the song jia effect

overcome your phone addiction

acceptance and change

learning to value

not taking risks , is the biggest risk

the perfect student

your enemies are secretly addicted to you

creating a successful mindset

mindset is everything

being your own dream girl

→ journal out who you want to be in 2025:

1. What does she look like? (Physical appearance, style)

2. How does she dress on a typical day?

3. What does she like ?

4. What doesn't she like?

5. What is her behavior like in different situations?

6. (Social interactions, demeanor)

7. How does she prefer to be treated by others? (Expectations from relationships)

8. How does she treat people around her? (Interpersonal relationships, kindness)

9. What does her daily routine entail? (Activities, schedule)

10. At what time does she usually go to bed? (Sleeping habits)

11. When does she wake up in the morning? (Morning routine)

12. What are her hobbies and interests? (Leisure activities)

13. What is her profession or occupation? (Career, job responsibilities)

14. What are her long-term goals and aspirations? (Career ambitions, personal achievements)

15. How does she handle stress or challenges? (Coping mechanisms, problem-solving approach)

16. What type of books does she enjoy? (Cultural preferences)

17. How does she maintain her physical and mental well-being? (Health and self-care routines)

18. Does she have any specific dietary preferences or restrictions? (Food choices)

19. Who are her closest friends, and what are her relationships like with them?(Friendship dynamics)

20. How does she navigate conflicts or disagreements? (Communication style, conflict resolution)

21. What values and principles guide her decision-making? (Personal ethics)

Delete the apps, and if you’re not willing to, PAUSE YOUR PROFILE. It’s too much; it’s exhausting, and chasing approval or attention on dating and hookup apps will tire you out faster than anything else. When I was on Hinge and Bumble, I was spiritually exhausted, and the best thing I did for myself was delete my profiles and focus on myself and the real world. Having a clean slate, clearing out your inbox and your conversations, and not having strangers barking at your door to be let in will help you rest. If you decide you can handle the apps or you want to have them, take your time and don’t agonize over the outcome.

You need to be in the gym or exercising 3 days weekly; my life became infinitely better when I had a workout routine, and moving my body helped alleviate so much of my tension and anxiety. 10,000 steps, proper meals, hydrating, and enjoying caring for my body helped change the way I viewed myself. A lot of people start working out, go hardcore with 7 days a week and intense cardio, and burn out fast. You don’t need to do that to be healthy or look good; a routine as simple as three days of the week and a consistent effort will get you right in no time at all. Consistency and a routine are what will win the race, not everything at first and then nothing at all.

You should work on maintaining friendships with people who uplift you and who you uplift in return. Your friends and partners can make the hardest times feel heavenly if they’re the right people; you must choose your friends wisely and then work on bettering and strengthening your relationships with each of them in 2025. In order to succeed, you need to have people around you, and you need to be willing to meet more people; you should be doing more and trying to experience more life, and you should be taking advantage of your youth. I wouldn’t have been able to come as far as I have without the help of my friends, and while isolation felt good to me at one point, loneliness is a beast one can’t battle alone.

Education is another essential thing to be focusing on throughout 2025, especially due to the period of time we’re living in. 2025 is all about improving our media literacy, getting diplomas and certifications, reading and writing more, becoming more articulate, learning more languages, and taking the time to relearn how to love learning. You are doing yourself a major disservice if you’re not keeping your mind sharp, learning new things, learning how to identify misinformation, and working on building up an understanding of the world around you. We as human beings were meant for lifelong learning, and if you’re not already doing something to sharpen your mind, now’s the perfect time to choose something fresh and get started.

2025 is also the time to work on gaining your independence, no matter your age. If you don’t know how to swim, don’t have your license, can’t ride a bike, don’t have a passport, don’t have a bank account, have never paid a bill, don’t know how to take public transit, or anything similar, now’s the time to get going. I read a great quote here on Tumblr about how you have to choose to wake up one day and take your independence, and I believe in it. Now is the perfect time to just start doing what needs to be done and learning along the way; you don’t need to be an expert, and you should feel no shame if you’re older and learning something new; you just need to be able to steer your ship out of troubled water if needed.

First you must let go and free yourself of the idea that you cannot be soft or beautiful while being yourself.

Begin the process of experimentation and find what works for you. Don't rush; take your time and enjoy every step of the process. Leveling up is all about finding something that works for you and that you love.

Choose a topic you love and learn more about it; focus on getting a degree or a certificate, and work your mind. Focusing on education will help you succeed. 

Make a pact to stop fighting with yourself, stop hating yourself, and start appreciating what you have to work with. You must think of yourself as a work in progress instead of a failure. Life is easier when you’re evolving.

Find a way of moving your body that you love and keep doing it. Working out, eating well (80/20), hydrating, and caring for yourself is an integral part of aging well. 

Document, journal, take notes, and write things down. Journaling gave me the ability to look back and see how I felt about things after they’d passed, it kept me on the path moving forward, and it helped me grow up.

Set a goal to meet one new person or do one new activity every month. Focus on slowly building quality relationships with people and finding new hobbies; don’t speedrun through things and hope for the best.

Be sure to save a little here and there, take your time to build up your funds, and don’t spend on things you don’t need. Careless spending will stop your journey before it can begin, and the truth is that you don’t need to overconsume or buy things without really thinking.

Take your time building yourself into the person you want to be. Can you do it in 6 months? Yes, but you should expect to work on yourself for at least a year. 

Prepare to pour into yourself. You’re going to spend a lot of time pouring into yourself and nourishing your own development, and you should be prepared to analyze yourself, both current and past versions. 

Join my 3-hour live workshop on Zoom, where we will create a tailored luxe glow-up plan personalized for you for 2025. Seats are limited and are first come, first served. Click here for more info.

The start of a new year is the perfect time for reinvention. If you’re tired of the same results, the same struggles, and the same routines, then it’s time to level up—not just externally, but internally. To manifest the success, wealth, and opportunities you desire, you must first cultivate a mindset that aligns with your vision of greatness. A luxe mindset is more than just positive thinking or affirmations; it’s a way of seeing the world, making decisions, and responding to challenges that positions you as a high-value individual. It’s about embracing abundance, commanding respect, and aligning your actions with your deepest desires.

— Commit to an Abundance Mentality

The first step to cultivating a luxe mindset is to adopt an abundance mentality. Abundance isn’t just about money; it’s a way of thinking that recognizes there are endless opportunities, wealth, and success available to everyone—including you. Stop thinking like there’s a limited supply of success or opportunity. There are no real limits, only the ones you impose on yourself. Instead of feeling competitive or threatened by others, see their success as proof that what you desire is possible. Believe that there’s more than enough for everyone—and start acting like it.

— Let Go of the Fear of Failure

Successful, high-value women know that failure is merely a stepping stone. They don’t fear it, avoid it, or let it hold them back. They embrace it as part of the journey. To build a luxe mindset, you must reframe failure as feedback and an opportunity to learn. Each setback is a lesson in disguise. When you stop fearing failure and start seeing it as an essential part of growth, you’ll be more willing to take risks, pursue big goals, and expand your horizons. Fear of failure only holds you back from the success you deserve. Let it go.

— Start Thinking Like a Visionary

In 2025, stop playing small. Visionaries don’t just react to life—they create it. Begin by crafting a vivid vision for your life. Where do you want to be a year from now, five years from now, or even a decade from now? Don’t limit yourself to what seems realistic. Build a vision that excites you, something that feels expansive and out of reach, because that’s where real growth happens. A luxe mindset is built on long-term thinking, on the ability to see opportunities in the distance and work backward toward them. When you think like a visionary, you align your actions with your highest goals, and everything becomes a stepping stone toward that vision.

— Embrace High Standards and Never Settle for Less

A luxe mindset doesn’t settle. It demands the best—whether that’s in relationships, work, or personal growth. If you’re constantly accepting less than you deserve, you’re telling the universe that you don’t value yourself enough to aim for the top. High-value women set clear standards for what they will and won’t accept, and they don’t compromise on their worth. In the new year, raise your standards for everything—from the way people treat you to the goals you set for yourself. When you start expecting more, you’ll start attracting more.

— Surround Yourself with Like-Minded, High-Vibe People

Your environment shapes your mindset. To build a luxe mindset, you must surround yourself with people who challenge you, inspire you, and elevate your energy. People who settle for mediocrity or have a scarcity mentality will only drag you down. This year, be deliberate about the people you keep close. Connect with individuals who are as driven, ambitious, and successful as you want to be. These are the people who will inspire you, hold you accountable, and open doors for you. Your tribe has the power to either elevate or diminish your mindset—choose wisely.

— Develop Confidence

Confidence is the foundation of a luxe mindset. Without it, you won’t take the actions needed to manifest your goals, and you’ll never believe you’re worthy of success. Confidence doesn’t come from external validation—it comes from internal knowing. When you truly believe in your abilities, strengths, and worth, everything around you will shift. To build your confidence, start small. Practice speaking up more, taking risks, and owning your value in every situation. As you step into your power, the world will reflect it back to you. Confidence is magnetic—and it attracts wealth, success, and opportunities.

— Practice Daily Gratitude for What You Have and What’s Coming

Gratitude is one of the most powerful mindset shifts you can make. It trains your mind to focus on abundance rather than lack. Start your day by expressing gratitude for the things you already have—the people in your life, your health, your achievements—and for the wealth, success, and opportunities that are on their way. Gratitude is a signal to the universe that you are ready to receive more. The more you appreciate, the more you attract. Make gratitude a daily habit, and watch how it transforms your mindset and your life.

— Invest in Your Growth Relentlessly

If you want to attract wealth and success, you must first invest in yourself. This isn’t just about money; it’s about time, energy, and effort. Invest in your personal growth by learning new skills, attending seminars, reading books, or hiring mentors who can elevate your thinking. The most successful women are those who understand the importance of continuous self-improvement. In the new year, make investing in your growth non-negotiable. The more you invest in yourself, the more you’ll grow—and the more opportunities will come your way.

— Be Unapologetically Ambitious

This year, stop dimming your light. High-value women are unapologetic about their ambition. They don’t shy away from big goals or downplay their dreams. Instead, they speak boldly about their plans, and they expect to achieve them. Let go of any guilt you might feel about wanting success, wealth, and recognition. You deserve all of it—and more. When you embrace your ambition with confidence and grace, you not only inspire others but also create a life that reflects your highest potential.

— Stay Consistent and Committed to Your Vision

A luxe mindset is one of consistency and commitment. No matter how small or big your steps are, keep moving forward. Success doesn’t happen overnight—it happens through consistent, focused effort over time. The women who achieve their goals are the ones who don’t give up when things get tough, who stay aligned with their vision even when the path isn’t clear. In 2025, commit to your vision and stay the course. Consistency will turn your dreams into reality.