happy birthday lesbians. thank you for keeping society intact and functional as well as fun and sexy

I can’t wait for the day a woman’s strength isn’t dictated by how much abuse she can endure

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every single lesbian has fought through heteronormativity and self-doubt before realizing they were lesbians. if you’re questioning and leaning towards lesbianism, and it feels like everyone else always “knew” their sexuality, it’s simply not true. there’s nothing wrong with you for being unsure or scared or frightened. we were all there once and it’s all okay.

yes i am a triple threat!! spilling drinks, screaming, and shedding long strands of hair everywhere

sometimes you’re not ready for certain things. maybe you’ll take longer than others. and that’s okay. we all grow at different speeds! 

keeping a little photo of someone you love inside of a heart-shaped charm hung around your neck?? so they’re always in your heart where ever you are?? excuse me?? we need to bring back locket culture!!

“queer is a slur that i have had used against me and im uncomfortable with it” and “queer is a slur that i feel comfortable reclaiming” and “queer is my identity” are all equally #Valid perspectives that can exist in our community that do on occasion overlap and can and should all be respected on the basis of the needs and desires of individuals

i read the sentence “abusers groom their character witnesses as carefully as they groom their victims” (in a comment thread in response to a “but i know [the accused] and hes such a nice man!!”) and it’s blowing my mind a weird amount even though i guess i already knew that