How to see people through God's eyes Part 3/3
What are the practical steps that we can take to begin to see people through God's eyes and love them like God does?
A. We Must First Experience God’s Love Personally
“That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith… And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge…”
We cannot give what we do not possess.
Many believers intellectually know God loves them, yet do not deeply live in the reality of that love.
“That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith… that ye… may be able to comprehend… what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge.” — Ephesians 3:17–19 (KJV)
When believers truly understand:
• Their own adoption in Christ
They become more merciful toward others.
People who know grace deeply usually show grace freely.
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B. We Must Die to Self-Centredness
“If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.”
One of the greatest barriers to loving others is self.
• “What about my rights?”
• “How do people make me feel?”
But Christ calls believers to crucify self.
“If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.” — Luke 9:23 (KJV)
The more self rules us, the less we can love others purely.
The love of Christ grows in yielded hearts.
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C. Ask God to Let You See Souls Eternally
“But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion on them…”
Jesus saw beyond the surface.
When He looked at people, He saw:
• Sheep without a shepherd
• Souls needing salvation
“But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion on them.” — Matthew 9:36 (KJV)
Compassion begins with spiritual sight.
• Eternal souls needing redemption
“Lord, help me to see people the way You see them.”
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D. Remember How Patient God Has Been With You
“He that is forgiven little, loveth little.”
One of the greatest motivations for loving others is remembering God’s mercy toward us.
“He that is forgiven little, loveth little.” — Luke 7:47 (KJV)
We become slower to condemn others.
Merciful people are usually those who know they have received mercy.
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E. Depend Upon the Holy Spirit
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love…”
Divine love cannot be produced merely by human effort.
It is the fruit of the Holy Spirit.
“The fruit of the Spirit is love…” — Galatians 5:22 (KJV)
The Holy Spirit enables believers to:
• Bless those who wound them
• Show kindness under pressure
This kind of love is supernatural.
It is Christ loving through yielded vessels.
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F. Practical Ways to Love Like God Loves
Many people are starving for genuine attention.
Jesus often stopped to listen.
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Bitterness destroys spiritual vision.
“Be ye kind one to another, tender-hearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” — Ephesians 4:32 (KJV)
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3. Pray for People Instead of Judging Them
Intercession changes the heart.
It is difficult to hate those you sincerely pray for.
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4. Look Beyond Outward Appearances
Some of the most broken people hide behind anger, pride, or indifference.
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5. Serve Quietly and Sacrificially
True love is often demonstrated in unseen acts.
Jesus washed His disciples’ feet.
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The world desperately needs to see genuine Christian love.
Not sentimental love. Not shallow tolerance. Not selective kindness.
Human love, though often beautiful, remains incomplete without God.
God sees human beings as eternal souls made in His image and worthy of redemption through Christ.
The cross proves the value God places upon humanity.
As believers grow closer to Christ:
• Their compassion deepens
• Their love becomes more sacrificial
The ultimate goal of the Christian life is not merely knowledge, activity, or even ministry success.
“Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.”
• See people through His eyes
• Value souls as He values them
• Reflect Christ to a wounded world