Your f/o cares about and respects your boundaries:
If you tell them a topic makes you upset, they'll avoid it as much as possible! They won't act like they "can't talk to you about anything", because it's simply not true, and avoiding topics that bother you is quite easy for them.
If you aren't okay with certain parts of your body being touched, they'll understand and keep your limits and comfort in mind. There are many other ways they can show you their care and affection so it's no trouble at all.
If you can't handle certain pet names or nicknames, they'll do what they can to keep that in mind. Words can have a great impact and they understand that, so adjusting their vocabulary for your well-being is completely fine and manageable.
If you've cut certain people out of your life, they'll respect your decisions and support you as much as they possibly can. They won't push you to justify yourself, but if you're ever feeling like discussing what happened, they're there to listen.
If you've dealt with trauma, they won't force you to share anything more than you're willing to. They believe you and they'll be there to hold you when you cry, to lift you up when you can't stand by yourself and to grant you strength and bravery when everything feels hopeless and dim.
Your f/o loves all of you, no matter how negatively you may view certain aspects of yourself. Taking care of you isn't a burden or at all upsetting to your f/o, it actually makes them feel closer to you!
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