NSFW ~ Kink

Adults 18+only!! Let’s get this out of the way. I’m 5’3” & 290lbs. If this isn’t what you are looking for or want then move on. I’m a 53 yr old poly Hispanic female who’s been married for 34yrs. I play because he’s not into the BDSM kink community. In my kink community I found out that I am an amateur pain slut. I’m into chocking, wax, rope, nipple clamps, flogging, spanking, & blindfolding. I feel like vanilla has its place after a good round of flogging/airplay or as a way to slow me down. I’m looking for a TRUTHFUL Top that will not be shy about expressing his feelings about anything. I don’t want to try to figure out how my scene partner is feeling. I would rather walk away knowing the exact reason why I couldn’t satisfy you than sit next to you not knowing how your day went, if you want to talk about it or some other topic. I crave true & honest communication after NOT getting it these past 6 years of my life. I want to feel wanted/needed/appreciated not used. I don’t want to feel rushed through a scene so you can get off either. Physical pleasure is very important to me. Don’t worry it’s a steady NSA thing I’m looking for because I won’t be up for anything else right now. Also anyone wanting to play with me &/or my scene partner must be nonjudgmental of our use of party favors &/or dress code. He & I love to see him dress up in women’s clothing. I love watching him play with men. I am not always around when he plays with others so it’s a treat when I can watch. 😈 You don’t have to participate if you don’t want to of course. If you want to bring your own favors that would be awesome. 😏😈 If something I posted is yours & want it removed let me know. 😁