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🦢 we both carry lip gloss in our bags… just different flavors

🦢 we can share clothes, jewelry, and perfume — and still gasp when the other walks into the room

🦢 doing our makeup together feels like a sacred ritual

🦢 we take pictures of each other like we’re shooting for vogue

🦢 soft touches, painted nails, and matching rings

🦢 she knows exactly what “do I look okay?” actually means

🦢 handwritten love letters sealed with lipstick kisses

🦢 our dates look like photo shoots and feel like fairytales

🦢 late night pillow talks that turn into poetry

🦢 kissing her feels like lip balm, glitter, and prayer

🦢 femininity isn’t for the male gaze — it’s our language

🦢 softness doesn’t mean weakness — it means magic

woke up late for work, drank like four cups of coffee to wake up, and is now stuck in traffic. absolutely bursting to piss, but what are they going to do? maybe there's a cup or bottle, but no way that'll fit everything. they could get out and pee on the side of the road, but what if traffic starts moving again? no, no, they'll just have to hold it. bonus points if someone else is in the car to witness all of it

inhuman character in a human(oid?) body for the first time, has to learn about bodily functions. most of them are easy enough, but they take a while to figure out when they need to pee. a few accidents happen before they get the hang of it. maybe they even decide they like the feeling of it, and have to be told very explicitly (some punishment/negative reinforcement even) that they're not allowed to do that anymore

person who loses literally all bladder control/capacity when drunk either forgets their tolerance or is peer pressured to drink more than usual and has to deal with the consequences

fear wetting!! typically tough person gets in a situation a couple degrees scarier than what they usually deal with, and out it all comes. great especially if someone has to help them deal with the aftermath, comforting them and telling them it's okay, it's just your body, there's nothing wrong with you. maybe the comforter is a bit into it as well, and they fuck about it later :)

someone gets cursed to not physically be able to release their bladder unless under certain conditions, but when those conditions are met? immediate release, no matter when or where they are. could be something like not being able to piss unless at 100% capacity, or only being able to piss at a certain time of day, or even only while doing a specific other task or activity like sleeping

elevator omo... maybe the lift breaks down, maybe they're already desperate but the bathroom is on another floor, either way they wet themselves in front of whoever else is in the lift (be that one person or multiple)

eating pussy from behind needs more appreciation if you ask me ! yeah, having a girl sitting on your face or with her legs folded over her chest is nice but nothing tops watching a lady with her back arched and face squished on the sheets, pretty pussy dripping down on her plush inner thighs and cute butt wiggling for your hands to grope it ! squeezing my face between her legs feels like heaven, with the tip of my nose rubbing on her pulsing hole and my tongue lapping between her folds— don’t even get me started on how it’s the perfect position for her to grind back on my face, while she babbles but it’s muffled with the sheets. so so dirty. you can also grip her hips if she tries to run away from your mouth sucking her aching clit, saying it’s too much. just spank her ass and tell her to say her safe word or just shut up and take what you give her… jesus, i’m getting horny.

AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.

aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.

dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!

and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)

“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”

“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”

“I liked everything you did.”

“everything was within my boundaries.”

“you did great, (name/nickname).”

“do you need anything?”

“would you like (self care act)?”

“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”

just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!

Instructions, guidance, pet names, always.

That's it

hear me out. dom who puts diuretics in their subs drinks.