what name for thee, other than thee?

”using she/her pronouns for ralsei is misgendering” is functionally the same statement as “you can’t depict that white/light-skinned character brown that’s blackwashing!” And what I mean by this is that the reason whitewashing non-white fictional characters is bad is because you are erasing that character’s marginalized identity in favour of centring whiteness. It harms no one to depict a white character as non-white because whiteness is not a marginalized identity and white people are already centred + widely represented in art and fiction. Now the reason misgendering fictional characters is bad in the case of, say, Kris, is because Kris is non-binary, and misgendering them is erasing their (notably marginalized) identity as a non-binary person. Even in the absence of the incredibly blatant transfeminine coding (if you can even call it coding at this point) of Ralsei particularly in chapter 5, the people referring to Ralsei with she/her pronouns are not erasing any character’s marginalized identity. Men are not marginalized just for being men. This would be one matter if Ralsei was canonically a transgender man like Metatton but that straight up is not the case at all lmao. People on the internet she/her-ing Ralsei is causing zero harm to anyone you just don’t want your blorbo to be a trans girl

we had some bills go through that I forgot about and had to pay for the next week of the room so now we are completely broke again !!! we are outta here and onto the curb in seven days please help if you can however you can. thank you!!!!

Hey we heard back from our job prospects & we didn’t actually get them <3 please help us not to die while we frantically search for new work please please please please thank you

we had some bills go through that I forgot about and had to pay for the next week of the room so now we are completely broke again !!! we are outta here and onto the curb in seven days please help if you can however you can. thank you!!!!