Postcards From Pluto

Yes

But that doesn't mean I'm into real serious shit either.I feel tired of both honestly

I desire something that sparks my inner Johnny Sins and Shahrukh Khan at the same time.

I know it's too good to be true but I'm keeping my hopes up.

How the hell did u deal with that

The simple and what i believe the most effective way is

Just STOP

Control your urges for once ? Try not to touch people? Use your own hands?

I guess you get the drift ........

Consider it like going into rehab........ de-addict yourself from living off adrenaline.

Ofcourse you'll get withdrawal symptoms but there is no short cut to it.

and furthermore accepting

They won't be what you want them to

The painful needle of hope

Call it a stroke of luck but this question came exactly at a time where I am ...........how should I put it in the simple words.........."mentally fucked up".

And trust me ....I truly am in dire need of a day where I feel normal. Nothing extra ordinary,just plain old me doing the things that make me feel ME again.

So what did I do?

Well as tempting as it may be to keep going on in the dilapidated and crumbling state that you are in

TAKE A FUCKING BREAK...

Yes .....

Realise that your patience and tolerance levels have been tested through the roof and your head can no longer hold any more of what u stuff it with.

Your body NEEDS restoration. Give it TIME to heal.

So TAKE the day off. DO NOT care about consequences......well atleast for that day.

Sleep, eat, read, pray, masturbate.......do ANYTHING that brings back some semblance in your head.

P.s dating apps actually not working so well for me rn

Sorry for replying so late I was on a mental health break (yes I do take those .....judge me as much as you want)

To be honest we all know we see that "shitty break up" coming wayy before it actually lands on us. We ignore the red flags and the dead giveaways that this relationship is slowly running outta fuel and try to keep spanking the remote thinking it might still go on.

So when you know it's time ......why don't you peacefully let them go?There is always more to life than one particular person.

I feel a normal relationship with not much expectations and a healthy end is far better than putting yourself through the ugly ass process of casual intimacy.

I'm wayy over it.

Ofcourse my heart misses the thrill

I guess you're suffering from a case of "I need human relationships but don't have the energy to put any work in"

Don't get me wrong I don't judge what you feel. I felt like that for a long time too (and sometimes even now)

And I truly screwed around.........

If u want to too........ download a dating app maybe?

Because if everything boils down to a few good evenings and mediocre sex for you then Tinder or Bumble or anything similar in trend brings people who think just like you right to your fingertips.Trust me it's easier than u think.

Although I shall tell u beforehand......all that messing around still made me feel like an ugly mess inside

But we're all not ready to get into healing yet!!

Honestly me too!

I need a relationship after 9pm

We all boil down to our primal instincts

But life can not be sustained

go for walks after classes

and he can't help but adore