Life Epiphanies

Change has been the law of nature. As they say and is written too - Change is the only constant. Change = moving time. As humans we are privileged to understand and live this feeling. The acceptance brings growth and evolution. The good feeling brings positivity and the bad brings learning. How you feel gets reflected in what we call our behavior. This also includes expectations and the under-rated concept of influence. All this may sound as confusing, but it is the reality of our complicated human brain. it tricks us, shapes us and makes us do certain things which starts to shape our reality. The person you intend to be should match with the person you are becoming. When they get aligned, growth happens, success is achieved.

Sometimes the process is very conscious, and the brain is ready for its impact too. When this is not the case and the process is not done consciously, it leads to a whole lot of issues. The impact is neither intended positive and nor is it received positively. The situation is not favorable as then the relations of we as humans goes down the drain. in the entire process of living a life we intentionally or unintentionally do certain behavior s that disturb the intended flow of family and friends. What we can actually do is trying to be conscious and aware and increase this awareness about our own self. once we achieve this behavior and the related issues of emotions will become secondary.

She became quiet

She learnt to keep

She nurtured patience

She... Started to wait yet again...

For grief is always deep...

Loss is not empty

For loss is void...

Neither is silence calm

Misunderstood as mere emotions

Discarded as low phases

Grief settles

So does loss

Silence embeds itself

Something shifts

Soul grows...

Keep your subconscious aware of the fact that when people around you, your near and dear ones tell you about the change in your thinking, your personality or your perceptive brain, you are able to judge yourselves and stay positive towards learning.

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Blooming proudly amongst the leaves

Fragrant air beneath its curls

Crimson hues shone bright

A naive rosebush born

Innocent of the cunning clouds

Spreading the majestic glow

Drenched in the glorous success

Wild tempest decided otherwise

Oh! The royalcy was indominant

A war thus broke out

Of crafty clouds and

Tempestuous gale

Thundershowers and blaze

Blew with their might

Garden remorsed of wilderness ahead

But

The majestic, naive, scarlet stood

Tall and bright

For its roots were deep.

Found myself at the furnace Was it burning me to death? Pain and anguish was all I found When cooled… lo! I was round

Denominations associated Value fixed, fate sealed One amongst many Royal I was destiny concealed

Packed and shipped Brought smiles and gifts And drowned for wishes Felt contended and blessed

The yearning for more grew, I learnt and re-learnt the laws of life anew

Season it took for me to be seasoned

Love, Hate, Agony, Faith to be reasoned

Without much ado I hearsay

Mind played games as sculptor Moulds his clay

To Live, To Laugh and to be merry each day

To long for loved one's day after day

The charm to hold the stars as bundle of joys

Didn't know sorrow even amidst the cries

for this is Life - time in motion

Each day sun shows up without fail! Clock ticks! and your dear Earth Spins! Life happens! Both Birth and Death...

So should it mean when we get up, we still live in yesterday? amazing how the human mind is, it tricks you into remembering what did not go well yesterday, how you felt drained and how a loved one disappointed you or maybe a friend deceived you and then follows guilt, anger, remorse... an opportunity lost and brain WINS!!!!!

If we get up and first thought is gratitude, not guilt it defeats this sarcastic brain. Gratitude for a beautiful and fresh day, gratitude for a roof over your head and gratitude for a bed you slept on. Gratitude for the ability to sleep and gratitude for another chance of 24 hours to live, to work towards your aim, to learn, to study, to acquire a talent or ability. Gratitude for the family you have, gratitude for a fine working body with five senses. Gratitude brings smile of humility which is required for this brain to understand that you are a medium (nimitt) for actions to happen. So, let these actions be rooted in love, thankfulness, gratitude and optimism!

Opportunities will come for you to grow and discover each day as is planned by the cosmos.

5 posts! for a beginner is an achievement...for a novice trying to pen down thoughts - is huge! 

Anxiety is the third emotion which we should acknowledge as humans, as I said earlier #acceptance and #fear are such emotions that if they are left un-attended, they govern our nature and mind. Anxiety is the next emotion we need to understand. Like #fear this also has a dominant negative side and a less productive or positive side. For any action to be executed effortlessly we require confidence but the moment we attach "performance" or "result" or "expectations" to this action, we enter the loop of anxiety and nervousness unknowingly. "What if" or "I have to" start pushing the individual towards achieving what it started for! The process to reach the desired goal becomes tedious instead of a learning and hence this demon of negativity enters quietly. Anxiety was less acknowledged in the kids who were born in last century, but it seems to have crept in the DNA of the millennial generation. For grownups it is a way of life and for the elderly a major reason for the sharp rise in dementia and Alzheimer. Anxiety is the palpitation which bothers your #focus to do anything, Anxiety is the #perspiration that constantly pushes you to reach the end goal and Anxiety is the barrier to your understanding of #joy and #peace.

Happy Teachers Day Role so important Place so pious Life without you Shall be an abyss

You are the star to follow You always fill the hollow With thoughts and intentions pure You guide and teach to be sure

Heartfelt regards and gratitude Reverence to your unconditional love You overcome the difficulties You are the guiding light, the peaceful dove

With folded hands and Regards at your feet May we be blessed always May you echo in every heartbeat!!

Baby does not fear anything till the parent does not show or teach this emotion - Fear

Why is it tough for the grown up to actually acknowledge and then grow out of this emotion? Surpass or actually win this? have you ever thought why fear is considered a negative emotion? A little more than required "fear" leads to imbalance in nature, imbalance in responses, imbalance in relationships, imbalance in the growth process. A little less is rarely seen. A "balanced" fear is also rare but can be seen where the understanding of this emotion is correct. you do not have to teach that a loss is so bad that it may silently generate this emotion of fear. you don't have to fight for proof or success so much that you overlook this silently creeping emotion along with it. Fear like all other human emotions is good and bad both. If the brain is trained to think above this fragility of emotions, then it is possible for the other strong emotions like hope and optimism to stay and hold the individual. You do not have to fight every time for what you want but you should rather learn to process these so you may be a bit balanced from inside and are able to hold yourselves from outside, like the baby - carefree, trusting the environment, non-judgemental towards the results or outcome.

Acceptance is the virtue of the brave.

Life humbles you in ways beyond the notice of your brain. We get tricked into accepting things, people and incidents in the name of "adjusting" or "hope" that one day things will be better. So being brave is not what the brain tells you often, being adjusting and often being "giving" into the situation is what the brain tells you. you go on deciding upon what is good, what is bad or what is ugly on the basis of this trick. What we overlook or forget or in this context is what the brain conditions you - you didn't give up! you flowed with time, you molded with situations, and you actually GREW by adding things that worked and discarding things that didn't work!!