Baby does not fear anything till the parent does not show or teach this emotion - Fear

Why is it tough for the grown up to actually acknowledge and then grow out of this emotion? Surpass or actually win this? have you ever thought why fear is considered a negative emotion? A little more than required "fear" leads to imbalance in nature, imbalance in responses, imbalance in relationships, imbalance in the growth process. A little less is rarely seen. A "balanced" fear is also rare but can be seen where the understanding of this emotion is correct. you do not have to teach that a loss is so bad that it may silently generate this emotion of fear. you don't have to fight for proof or success so much that you overlook this silently creeping emotion along with it. Fear like all other human emotions is good and bad both. If the brain is trained to think above this fragility of emotions, then it is possible for the other strong emotions like hope and optimism to stay and hold the individual. You do not have to fight every time for what you want but you should rather learn to process these so you may be a bit balanced from inside and are able to hold yourselves from outside, like the baby - carefree, trusting the environment, non-judgemental towards the results or outcome.

Change has been the law of nature. As they say and is written too - Change is the only constant. Change = moving time. As humans we are privileged to understand and live this feeling. The acceptance brings growth and evolution. The good feeling brings positivity and the bad brings learning. How you feel gets reflected in what we call our behavior. This also includes expectations and the under-rated concept of influence. All this may sound as confusing, but it is the reality of our complicated human brain. it tricks us, shapes us and makes us do certain things which starts to shape our reality. The person you intend to be should match with the person you are becoming. When they get aligned, growth happens, success is achieved.

Sometimes the process is very conscious, and the brain is ready for its impact too. When this is not the case and the process is not done consciously, it leads to a whole lot of issues. The impact is neither intended positive and nor is it received positively. The situation is not favorable as then the relations of we as humans goes down the drain. in the entire process of living a life we intentionally or unintentionally do certain behavior s that disturb the intended flow of family and friends. What we can actually do is trying to be conscious and aware and increase this awareness about our own self. once we achieve this behavior and the related issues of emotions will become secondary.

She became quiet

She learnt to keep

She nurtured patience

She... Started to wait yet again...

Anxiety is the third emotion which we should acknowledge as humans, as I said earlier #acceptance and #fear are such emotions that if they are left un-attended, they govern our nature and mind. Anxiety is the next emotion we need to understand. Like #fear this also has a dominant negative side and a less productive or positive side. For any action to be executed effortlessly we require confidence but the moment we attach "performance" or "result" or "expectations" to this action, we enter the loop of anxiety and nervousness unknowingly. "What if" or "I have to" start pushing the individual towards achieving what it started for! The process to reach the desired goal becomes tedious instead of a learning and hence this demon of negativity enters quietly. Anxiety was less acknowledged in the kids who were born in last century, but it seems to have crept in the DNA of the millennial generation. For grownups it is a way of life and for the elderly a major reason for the sharp rise in dementia and Alzheimer. Anxiety is the palpitation which bothers your #focus to do anything, Anxiety is the #perspiration that constantly pushes you to reach the end goal and Anxiety is the barrier to your understanding of #joy and #peace.