i need to say something
im overjoyed that i've made flags. theyre incredible tools of self expression and making other trans people feel seen when they are outcasted by their own community is something that i will never stop loving. but after months and months of sitting on my decision of staying or leaving this community, ive come to the conclusion that it simply. isn't worth it. i'm leaving. i wont be engaging in the community, or coining flags or terms anymore.
i have had many negative personal experiences with people within the community. relentlessly, i have been harassed and accused by those who dont subscribe to my same political and social beliefs. it has caused me great suffering.
the appreciation that i have for people who feel connected to my labels is immeasurable. its made me so happy. i feel like being selfless has only improved me and others. but as there is being selfless, there is also being selfish. and i firmly believe that jeopardizing my life, and the safety of my personal relationships, and those around me, is only selfish.
i have only respect for the people who have helped me realize who i am and what i feel i should be doing. im sorry, to the people i may have inconvenienced or treated with disrespect. and im sorry, to those whose requests i wasnt able to fulfill. and im sorry, to those who ive felt contempt towards.
i hope i only give the message that. there truly is options. and the radqueer community isnt the only place you can feel safe as a person with dysmorphia. there are people out there who will and wont accept you, but it is important to know that even if you arent accepted, you dont have to exist in a bubble. and that you should feel true to yourself before feeling true to the people who dont believe in you. there is hope, and there will always be hope for us. for you.
goodbye and happy new year
















