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You lot see a woman dating a camp or "effeminate" man and go "haha does she know she's a beard" as if bi men don't exist and don't have cause to subvert gender norms/have a complicated relationship with masculinity, regardless of who they're dating.

There’s also this implication that these women who date “effeminate” men can’t be genuinely attracted to them and are naive and oblivious towards their effeminacy. It a complete refusal to acknowledge that not only do gnc bi men exist, but women can be and are actually attracted to them. There doesn’t have to be settling or smoke screens in the relationship for it to work.

Women who are attracted to feminine men are also told “He’s GAY” by others as a way to shame their attraction to a man who’s feminine.  As if their acknowledgement of being attracted to a man who is not straight is somehow socially inappropriate or foolish. 

Not to defend straight people but straight women CAN be attracted to gnc men AND straight men can be gnc. It's patriarchy and homophobia to say a woman is "confused" or assume she's bi, as well as assuming men must be lgbt to get feminine

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sorry i didnt “complete my obligations” i was busy having gay little thoughts and ideas