Pisces x Scorpio

My sweet little Pisces anon, could you be any more adorable? I completely understand why this Scorpio has the sense to have fallen in love with you. (Don’t you know that Scorpio men only stare at what they choose to?)

Obviously he’s trying to gather as much information about you as possible through all your social networking. He’s making an effort to learn about you, your friends, your hobbies and interests, so that he can familiarize himself with them. But, herein lies the problem. He’s facing the same problem most young Scorpios do: shyness.

There are a few reasons that led me to draw that conclusion.

1. He markedly verified your friendship status to both confirm your mutual interest in him, and to get his foot in the door without having to assert any of his feelings.

2. He used the internet to get around asking you any questions about yourself directly, and it isn’t because he doesn’t want to get to know you personally. No, he wants to simultaneously impress you and not screw anything up by asking the wrong things or coming across as ignorant. This fear of appearing as anything but perfect does tend to lessen as Scorpios get older, but right now, it’s the way he operates.

3. Combined with the above listed reason, this does help explain the inexplicably long intervals between replies.

Now, you are right when you say Scorpios are innately drawn to mystery and mysterious people. However, I think you’re perceiving “mysterious” in the wrong way - to your Scorpio, you could be the most mysterious thing he’s ever seen. I get the impression that he’s quiet, reserved, and maybe apprehensive around other people. You seem bubbly, charming, and radiantly outgoing. To someone who just naturally does not get on with other people (I feel you), your extraversion could seem absolutely exotic to him. 

Hello my darling! First of all, I want to congratulate you on staying true to your beliefs. It is an incredibly noble thing to do, and something that not a lot of people can successfully commit to.

Firstly, despite what most astrology blogs, websites, etc. seem to tout, Scorpios are not hyper-sexual simply because they enjoy it. As I suspect you may have picked up on, they crave intimacy with another (which they can usually find through sex), but are ultimately searching for something that lasts. There’s a reason that he’ll sleep with ridiculously attractive people left and right, but have no problem leaving the next morning - physical intimacy alone will ultimately not satisfy him.

As such, I would say that you would actually have the upper hand here. As questionable as it may sound, Scorpios tend to quickly “get over” people that they can easily seduce. You’ll challenge a Scorpio, pique his interest, and he’ll either move on or work to figure you out. When he’s interested in you, finds a connection with you, then that’s it. It won’t matter whether you sleep with him or not. He’s in.

I find the vast majority of (mature) male Scorpios have a deep, genuine love for whomever they have chosen to be their partners, a commitment that they do not take lightly and that does not rest on the availability of sexual contact. Once you have reached a stage of emotional intimacy with a Scorpio, they are unwaveringly loyal. It’s tough for them to truly open up and become vulnerable in front of another person, as they consider it a fundamental weakness/flaw, so they reflect the trust they’ve placed in you. To him, you’ve already connected in a way that trumps any physical desire.

Long story short, I don’t anticipate you having a problem finding a faithful Scorpio man. They’re VERY PARTICULAR about maintaining your happiness when you matter so much to them, and will not stray unless he feels emotionally unfulfilled. So long as you are literal and honest with one another, a Scorpio will love you more than your dog will. Or, at least, he’ll try.