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And then proceeds to be fatphobic, mock people by their height, only talk about the intersex folk when you need arguments, not educating yourself on intersexuality and not listening to intersex people when they say they found something intersexist offensive

When they were first coined (as I remember it, at least) they were made to be expansive.

They meant "literally anyone who's gender is more feminine than masculine" and "literally anyone who's gender is more masculine than feminine" respectively.

The other common usages I saw were "literally anyone who's transitioning towards femininity/ masculinity".

They were very broad classifications. Purposefully so.

These terms allowed nonbinary people to have language that expressed masculinity or femininity without disavowing/erasing other (gendered) aspects of themselves.

And there was no expectation that everyone had to use them. They were just two options. There for anyone who wanted them.

Now these terms are (most often) used as synonyms for trans women/men. Now there's discreet "transfem" and "transmasc" experiences. No room for overlap or complexity.

It's become just another way to ask "yeah but are you a man or a woman"?

Had to take a screenshot because tumblr is breaking for some reason.

I don’t even care if people want to act on their paraphilas.

You want to hump your plushies? Go wild.

You want to be seen as a child and be groomed? Brother I’m right there with you.

You want to draw fictional children and jerk it to them? Pop off bro that’s a healthy alternative!

I do not care if a person acts on any paraphila, coming from a person who has multiple paraphilas, coming from a person who has “bad people” alters. None of it matters as long as everyone is safe and healthy.

Do you beat up your partner to the point you have to go to the hospital? I’d don’t fucking care as long as your partner is enjoying it as much as you are.

Hell I don’t even care if you’re doing it with a dead body, their dead, dead people don’t have the ability to be hurt.

I have many controversial options in the radqueer spaces and that’s okay, I block freely for my peace and they block freely for their peace that’s all that fucking matters. All I wish is that people at least try to be decent about it, mental health matters so much more. If only these people realised they can find a sense of community and make friends with other people with their disorder without hurting an animal or a child. Everyone deserves a safe space, but hurting someone makes it unsafe and I know I’m repeating myself but I really am so incredibly passionate about this.