better than you ♥

hi, my name is pastel and this is my blog

about me ❥it/she, ball-jointed agender tarantula gxrl thing, lesbian, bodily adult. ❥npd + hater autism + did + more. ❥simultaneously winning and losing the idagf war. ❥i'm mean if you piss me off, i don't sugarcoat myself. ❥i make flags sometimes ❥too weird for normie queers, too anti-abuse for radqueers lol. i call myself faux-radqueer. ❥i'm pro-para and anti-contact for nonconsensual paraphilias, including pedo and zoo. pro-contacts are abusers and deserve to die.

here you go, darling, let me know if you want any changes 🩷

no, i do not. the whole point of my faux-ID flags is to replace transID terms because i don't like them (which i can explain if you'd like).

faux-missing/fauxmissing

a faux-ID label for when you feel like you should be missing or considered missing due to exo-memories, delusions, aesthetic, kink, out of spite, or for fun -- but you haven't been missing in real life/in this life.

faux-doctor, faux-nurse, and faux-patient

plus an extra pink faux-nurse

let me know if you'd like different colors or anything, darling 🩷

faux-stalked/fauxstalked

a faux-ID label for when you feel like you should be stalked or considered being stalked due to exo-memories, delusions, aesthetic, kink, out of spite, or for fun -- but you haven't been stalked in real life/in this life.

this term is against non-consensual harm, and is pro risk aware consent. this label does not condone, encourage, or excuse abuse and should not be used as such.

pink schizoid personality disorder flag

for anyone with SzPD/traits who likes pink or feels like pink represents themselves.

original flag

faux-npd/fauxnpd

flag made by @glasspaws

a faux-ID label for when you feel like you should have npd or be considered to have npd due to exo-memories, delusions, aesthetic, kink, atypical dysphoria/euphoria, out of spite, having traits but not the full disorder, self-diagnosis, or for fun -- but you don't actually have npd, don't meet the full diagnostic criteria for npd, or feel like your npd isn't "real" enough.

haii.. our blog isnt for coining so i thought id drop this here.. we're self diagnosed npd and felt like fauxnpd really fit so we made a flag 4 it! if you're comfortable with it, we'd love for you to coin it here with or without credits. if not feel free to delete this ask ^_^ ^^ fauxnpd flag attached inspired by the npd flag (made the purple more desaturated tho)

faux-stalker/fauxstalker

a faux-ID label for when you feel like you should be called a stalker or considered a stalker due to exo-memories, delusions, aesthetic, kink, out of spite, or for fun -- but you don't actually stalk people in real life/in this life.

this term is against non-consensual harm, and is pro risk aware consent. this label does not condone, encourage, or excuse abuse and should not be used as such.