008. KEEPING AN OPEN MIND
oswald is no stranger to what it’s like being segregated and pushed away, despite the major privileges he grew up with and the fortune he inherited by last name alone. during his time in london, he met plenty of different people from many different places and multiple backgrounds and stories. those experiences heavily influenced him to keep an open mind on things, plus knowing that feeling of being thought of as “weird”.
if it wasn’t for people like that, he might struggle a bit more being so accepting, but that wouldn’t stop him from trying his best anyway. with his father he grew up with some rather heavily conservative views and opinions, things that would constantly clash with how kind and loving his mother always was. being nothing like his father in that regard is also a strong motivator to continue learning more about those that tend to be targeted simply for being different.
his openness to nearly everything ended up reflecting positively for him in his involvement with gotham’s underground and segregated communities. always meeting people with enough kindness and understanding for them to feel safe with him. it’s that detail again of being “good” for both genuine reasons and some ulterior, though it’s never to judge or take advantage in a truly negative/unaccepting way.
oswald is more than okay with anyone within the lgbtq+ community, sex workers, people with disabilities of any kind, neurodivergent folks… he literally views all of that as normal, and in a way finds comfort despite being in a much more different spot than them (especially being a cis white man). he’s aware of his privilege and does his best not to view things from that position of his.
there are some things he still struggles with, not so much because of lack of acceptance but lack of knowledge, as well as sometimes lack of patience. for example: someone with autism who needs a lot of external help and is completely non-verbal. he wouldn’t fully understand how that works or why, but he’s not going to demonize them or think less of them. however if the person starts having a meltdown, he wouldn’t know what exactly he could do to help and would rather someone else deal with them. unless he already knows exactly what to do, but there’s plenty of things he’s yet to learn.
he will never judge someone by what they identify as, how they dress, talk, what they eat, where they come from, their past, their hobbies… he cares about loyalty and usefulness before anything else, but also happens to have a soft spot for those thought of as “weird” simply for being different and not fitting whatever society has labeled as normal.