I, myself, am strange and unusual

https://pluralpedia.org/w/Assidumate

(intended to be inclusive to all varieties of relationships (queerplatonic, platonic, polyamorous, etc.), though not all questions are universal)

(non-plurals can also repurpose and use plenty of these questions because they are intended to be widely applicable. Frankly we’d love to hear from people in all sorts of unconventional relationships share their answers!)

The basics:

What is your favorite physical trait about your partner(s)?

What is your favorite personality/mental trait about your partner(s)?

What is your favorite gesture of love your partner(s) does/has done for you?

What could you gladly listen to your partner(s) ramble about for hours?

What is an oddly specific quirk or trait you love about your partner(s)?

What is a hobby you like to do together?

Have your partner(s) ever made you cry from feeling loved/safe/happy? If so did something they do/say trigger it?

How has your partner(s) made you a better person?

What is something you’ll let your partner(s) do, but nobody else?

What is a pet peeve you have about your partner(s)?

What is the last thing you had a silly/petty argument about?

Are you married, or do you ever plan to be?

Do you have any physical mementos of your relationship? (rings, bracelets, artwork, sappy carving in the old tree on the abandoned train tracks behind your childhood home, tattoo, etc.)

What makes your current relationship unique compared to other ones you’ve been in?

The beginnings:

What is something that initially attracted you to your partner(s)?

What is something you got wrong about your partner(s) when you first met/started your relationship?

Was it love at first sight, or did things evolve slowly?

Did you get along at all in the beginning?

If you had a first date, what was it and how did it go?

What is one thing your partner(s) did to initially instill your trust in them?

The whole sharing a brain thing:

Do you prefer to front while your partner(s) backseats, or vice versa?

Do you have dissociative or amnesia barriers between each other? Would you change that if you could?

What is the first thing you would do if you got separate bodies?

Would you choose to have separate bodies if you could?

Do you think you would have ended up together if you were not sharing a body? (Assuming in this hypothetical universe you still know each other somehow?)

If you have a headspace, do you live together there?

How does plurality positively affect your relationship?

How does plurality negatively affect your relationship?

The ones about sex:

Well first of all, do you have sex with each other?

What’s your preferred method of having sex with each other?

What is your partner(s) hottest trait?

Who is most sexually open/outgoing?

What’s a kink you weren’t into until your partner(s) got you into it? (or vice versa, what kinks have you gotten your partner into?)

What’s a kink of yours that your partner(s) won’t to get into? (or vice versa)

targeted to endos , but anyone can use ! post made by an endo :)

✨️Corner✨️

Hihi! I saw some hate blogs posting system ask games. We don't stand for hate around here because everyone deserves a space for their system regardless of origin. Without further ado- here's our version uwu. Feel free to tag systems that are okay with ask games!!

-Presley

🛰-Do you have a large headcount?

👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?

🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?

☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?

🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?

🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?

🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?

🪐-Do any in your system have any unique roles?

💫-Do your littles use 'little speech'?'

🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches

🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?

🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?

🛸-Do you have any fictives in your system? What about Factives?

👽-Does your system have any tics?

☀️-Is your system bad at masking?

✨️-Do any in your system have an accent?

🌎-Do any in your system speak in a different language?

☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?

⭐️-Are you out about being a system?

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PLURAL ASK GAME!! ⋆˙⟡

⊹ ࣪ ˖͙͘͡★ get 2 know ur sys!!

!! this post is for everybody! u may use this regardless of origin/beliefs, just remember to follow ur own dni

🌸 - how many alters do u have? do u consider yourself to have a high headcount?

🧩 - do u have any subsystems? if so, how do they work?

🍧 - are there any alter(s) who u would consider the “core”? if so, are they the host?

💞 - do u have an innerworld? how complex is it?

💧 - how does fronting work for your system? do u have a “front room”?

🍀 - how do u communicate with ur headmates?

🍡 - do u use alter roles/labels? which ones do u use?

🌺 - who fronts the most? who fronts the least?

❄️ - how often do ur hosts/fronting patterns change?

🥝 - how often do u switch?

🪷 - do you co-front with other alters often? is co-fronting easy or difficult?

🌷 - how long does it take for u to switch?

🌨️ - do ur alters have specific voice claims for what they sound like in headspace?

🌱 - do u have any introjects? what are their sources?

💐 - do u have any hosts? co-hosts?

🍃 - if u have an innerworld, can u see into while you’re fronting?

💗 - do u use any origin/-genic terms? what are they?

🌿 - do u have any npcs in your headspace?

🍬 - has ur system created any rules ur alters are expected to abide by?

Concordia First 24hrs Update

First of all — thank you all so much for the support so far. Reaching 200+ followers in less than 12 hours is honestly incredible, and we’re really excited to work on something that can help this community.

As a small thank you, we wanted to share a sneak peek at some of the features we’re currently planning for Concordia!

(Options: Yes, we have individual headmate blog(s) | Yes, we have a collective blog | Yes, we have both individual and collective blogs | No, we use our main | We don’t plural-post | Nuance/Other)

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