I am My Motivation

"Don't wait for the holidays.

Don't wait for the weekend.

Don't wait for her to tell you she's feeling any type of way. While she's at work or school, go ahead and make a stop for some flowers. Go ahead and set out something for dinner that YOU can cook. Go ahead and text her how you're missing her even though you just saw her a few hours ago. Go ahead and get a Hallmark card and place it on her windshield so she can see it when she walks up on her car on her lunch break. Go ahead and re-up on that shampoo, or bobby pins, or tampons you saw she was running low on so she doesn't have to run that errand later.

No special occasion, just because, and to back up all the times you say you love her...do it. Today. Every day.

#FELLAS...if she's not forgetting to breathe every now and then, or if she's not conflicted between reaching back for you to pause for a second and using that same hand to grab for the sheets, or if you ask her who does it belong to and she's able to say your name on the first try, or if you do stop and she's not stuck in that same position for at least 13 seconds, or if her hair is messed up and she's actually mad about it instead of feeling like it was a small price to pay for what you just gave her...start over and try again because you did it wrong. 👌😎