as a whole this fandom is a lot lot lot healthier than most rpf fandoms and I’m really happy about that BUT we have some prominent assholish beliefs/behaviours we need to disband
shane is not ur bicon. I know, I know, he talks about Poe Dameron so much! I know, he’s very complimentary to handsome men! that doesn’t mean he’s bi, and that doesn’t mean you can attribute a sexuality to him. unless shane comes out, just leave his sexuality alone. if you’re interested in lgbt buzzfeed folk, Eugene, Kelsey and Jen are your type of crew!
Ryan is Japanese, Mexican and Filipino. he is Latino. stop erasing his identity because he doesn’t fit your narrow minded view of Latine/Latinx identity
don’t pester the boys about shyan! this includes wondering why they aren’t sending time with one another! that’s rude!
please just respect Sara and Helen. they’re incredible, it shouldn’t be hard
stop infantalising ryan. he isn’t a baby. it’s a huge problem for non-white folks, and was historically used to strip them of their autonomy. it’s still a huge problem today. anyway, have you seen his arms? trust me, that’s a grown ass man
relating to pestering the boys - you don’t really need to comment on their social medias, ya feel? like, yeah, follow them, and yeah tweet the boys about unsolved stuff - they love that shit - but like, obvious personal photos on insta? just give it a like and move on my dude. don’t make it weird
finally for the love of God just,,,remember they’re actual real life human beings. shit you say and do can and will affect them. they’re definitely not getting paid enough to deal with this shit.
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