Would you feel like the last few years, she was still thinking about "what ifs" with "the guy that got away". Would you feel emotionally insecure despite her telling you she chose you. Would you still want to continue the relationship and trust that she is committed to you and only u. Would it hurt you that she thought about this "guy that got away" two years in, when the break was to think about you guys?
If it were me, I would feel insecure. I would admit that I’m the jealous type, but that aside I still think it’s something that would concern me. I think everyone has that “one that got away”, but what differs is how they express that feeling and the extent that they believe in the possibility of it still happening. I don’t think you’re wrong in being completely honest with your partner. In fact, I think it’s better that you’re transparent about it instead of hiding it. But to further answer your question, yes, I would feel a little bothered. It would make me question those 2 years we’ve dated. I can understand if it was within a couple of months of dating, but I feel like 2 years is enough time to commit to someone as your significant other. On the same note though, marriage is a huge step. It’s only fair that you take time to really think about everything that’s going on while taking a step back. Marriage is the ultimate commitment and I think you need to be ready in so many ways in order to move on with it. Naturally there are going to be some doubts and concerns, but I think it’s something you should talk to family and close friends about to get an outside point of view on the situation. I hope I was able to help a little bit, so sorry for the late reply!
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