update on my estranged abusive mother (fun!!) - little rant/vent/tea? idk i just like talking
ive been fully no contact since october 2025, but yesterday i got a phone call from my estranged 15 yo stepsister who had always defended our mother until now. so i finally got the "you were right about mom" phone call, and as much as i feel vindicated, i dont think i even care that much anymore.
what i do care about tho, is the amazing list of Things My Mother Did But She Still Is The Victim And the World Is Against Her, and you bet i'll turn her abusive ass into a freak show as many times as i want!! so recently, she :
slept with her grieving goddaughter's husband (goddaughter is the one grieving her mom, aka the relative who selected my mother as the godparent) (goddaughter and her husband are 20 years younger than my mother is)
sent her beloved, adored, "if you dont stay with me i'll kms" daughter on an internship 750 km away from her home, housed by an abusive relative who does not feed her kid (my stepsister)
forbid her daughter from texting me, ever, because if she did i would manipulate her against our mother like i did my brother (my 22 years old adult brother she neglected so much she forgot to pay for his school, gave him expired groceries, forgot his diploma ceremony and disconnected his electricity)
planned to tell me i was the reason why her and my stepsister could go to japan, because i ruined their dreams, to guilt me (actual reason was that stepsister's father didn't allow her to take his child out of the country)
went on a game show (?? good for her i guess? can't help but correlate it to her constant need to get attention)
unto what i've heard she says about me :
i apparently am a drug user to the point i am no longer invited to family events (not because im no contact by choice, but because i apparently do crack)
apparently i am without a job :( and without an apartment. i do wonder where i live. (my mother works at an administrative job where she can see the monthly money i make and where i live)
faked suicide attempt for attention (a classic abusive parent move, we are not surprised)
and many more............ wOAH lmao. anon box open if you wanna gossip about it or just talk about estranged parents being the worst thing in the world