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if youre white stop saying ‘im sorry for being white’ or ‘as a white person, i’m sorry’ it makes you sound like youre distancing yourself from the issue. circulate posts as needed. don’t speak over us and stay aware of the system you benefit from. we dont need an ‘apology’
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Some little things you can do today to actually help Autistic people rather than throwing on a blue t-shirt and supporting an awful organisation
Reformat your blog to make it clear and accessible, large writing, no flashing background, no sharp colours and a clearly distinguishable font colour
Also, take a look at the posts you make, try and simplify the language, add TLDRs, make it so mentally disabled people can read your work
Don’t make loud noises in public, similarly do not smoke or wear strong perfumes around people you don’t know, they can really trigger our sensory issues
Look at your school/work/community/etc policies or guidelines regarding disability and/or Autism, are they compatible with what Autistic people need and want? Are we covered by your disability services? If it is safe for you, bring attention to any issues that you find.
Spread posts written by Autistic people, amplify our voices and use them to educate others
Take the time to talk to Autistic people in your life, ask them if there’s anything they need from you, extend a hand but do not force them to take it
If you have money to spare support organisations like ASAN or look for individual Autistic people who are in need of financial help
Read writings by Autistic people, if you have the money I encourage you to buy Loud Hands: Autistic People Speaking but I know that is absolutely not an option for everyone
And feel free to ask me any questions you may have! I obviously can not speak for every Autistic person but I will speak from my experience as an Autistic person and point you towards others if need be
do not consider this a complete list, and certainly don’t assume this is all thats need to end ableism against Autistic people, that is a far more lengthy, longreaching and hard process that involves working against all forms of oppression, but these little things might at least make things a bit easier for us xx
On ‘Genderbending’
Lately I’ve been seeing people discuss why ‘genderbending’ isn’t transphobic, or why it’s something that’s fine and should be accepted. Most of the people who have been discussing this are cis, which is an issue right off the bat, so I’m going to preface this post by saying that if you are not trans, you do not have the right to determine what is or is not transphobic. Full. Stop. So if you’re cis, and your first instinct is to argue with me on this, I would like for you to consider why you believe that you can recognize transphobia better than someone who is routinely subject to it. That being said, let’s get into this.
To start off, what is ‘genderbending?’ Most fansites will define it as the act of ‘switching’ a character’s gender, but there’s already an issue with this. ‘Genderbending’, or ‘rule 63’ as is called in some circles, it not just about switching a character’s gender, it is about changing that character’s body as well. I have yet to see a ‘genderbent’ version of a male character who lacked breasts and a dfab body. This the first and most obvious reason why ‘genderbending’ is inherently transphobic - it assumes that physical traits and gender are the same thing, and that you cannot be female without also being dfab. This is cissexism, and this is transphobic. The message that ‘genderbending’ says is that you must have breasts and a vagina to be female, and you must have a penis and a flat chest to be male. I should not have to explain why that message is transphobic.
However, the way ‘genderbends’ are carried out also has distinctly transphobic implications in how it switches out the physical traits of characters to make them ‘the opposite gender’ ( the notion of there being ‘opposite genders’ is some fresh bullshit that I’ll cover later in this post ). For example, by giving a male character breasts and curves when ‘genderbending’ him, the message is clear that this character was cis to begin with. ‘Genderbending’ inherently implies that all characters are cisgender by default, and erases any possibility of these characters being trans. This is not as overtly transphobic as the first point, but it is harmful to trans people within fandom spaces, as the assumption that all characters are cis until explicitly stated otherwise pushes us out of media and removes whatever representation we might try to make for ourselves.
The third issue with ‘genderbending’ is that it is always cis male <—> cis female, and nothing else. I have never seen people ‘genderbend’ characters by making them nonbinary or intersex. I have never seen a genderbend of a female character which made her a trans male instead. ‘Genderbending’ implies that there are only two options when it comes to gender: cis male and cis female. There is no such thing as nonbinary people within this ideology. Intersex people are laughable at best. Agender people are little better than a distant myth. ‘Genderbending’ ignores that it is impossible to make a character ‘the opposite gender’, because there is no such thing as an ‘opposite gender’. Gender is a spectrum, not a binary, but you wouldn’t know that from the way fandom spaces treat it.
Of course, there are some reasons for ‘genderbending’ cis male characters into cis females that will always get brought up in discussions on the politics of ‘genderbending.’ The most frequent is that cis girls, who only see themselves as one-dimensional characters in media, want to have characters like them who are just as multifaceted and developed as the male characters that we are given, so they make their male faves female to give themselves the representation they desire. This is a decent reason for ‘genderbending’, but it does not excuse the fact that the way in which ‘genderbending’ is done is inherently transphobic, and it gives fans yet another excuse to ignore female characters in favor of focusing on their male faves.
Another reason for ‘genderbending’ that I’ve heard is ‘it’s for the sake of character exploration - like, what if this character had been born as male/female instead?’ This excuse is cissexist and transphobic from first blush. The idea behind it is that someone ‘born as female’, aka with breasts/vagina will automatically be a cis female, allowing fans to explore what that character’s life would have been like if they were female. Why not explore the possibility of a character being designated female at birth, but still identifying as male? Why do you need a character to be cis for you to find their personality and life interesting to explore? Why do you automatically reject the notion of your fave being trans? If you want to explore what it would have been like for your male fave to have struggled with sexism, consider them being a trans woman, or a closeted dfab trans person.
As a closing statement, I want to make one thing very clear. ‘Genderbending’ does harm trans people. It perpetuates dangerous cissexist notions and the idea of a gender binary being a valid construct, erases nonbinary and intersex people, and others trans people. These are what we call microaggressions - they are not as dangerous as outright harassment and assault, but they enforce and support a system and ideology in which we are other, and we are worthy of hate and violence because we do not fit in.
‘Genderbending’ is a transphobic practice, and if you engage in it, you need to be aware of and acknowledge this.
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Attention anyone who needs hairstyle references
I want to introduce all of you to this amazing place called the ukhairdressers style gallery.
It’s basically a massive database full of high-quality images of different hairstyles. I mean, look at all the options in that sidebar (and part of it’s cut off):
In total they have 976 pages of hairstyles with about 17 styles each, that’s about 16592 hairstyles to look at.
Look at all the stuff they’ve got! Long hair:
Short hair:
Straight hair:
Curly hair:
Afro hair:
Men’s hair:
Hair on older models:
Extra-fancy hair:
Even crazy avant-garde hair:
So if you need help with designing a character or you just want to practice drawing hair, this is a fantastic resource.
if u dont have a demonized mental illness then dont talk for us and the say “but i have anxiety/depression/etc!!!” like u may be neurdivergent but thats still not ur place to speak and we would appreciate if u didnt speak over us and demonize us even more thanks
Femme boi who gives 0 fucks about the gender binary lookz.
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The Trans Day of Remembrance was founded in 1998 to remember the murder of a Black trans woman, Rita Hester. Please share as this is important info to know.
this is from like 2 days ago but im queer, im trans, im here to do a dance [nb, they/it pronouns]
please support sex-positive and sex-neutral asexuals who are okay with sex please support asexuals with sex drives please support gray-asexuals and demisexuals please support asexuals who may possibly have sex asexuals don't need to feel sexual attraction to have sex
!!!!! it's so fun being an irrational asshole all the time!!! can't wait to stab myself in the fucking throat

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if i was trapped inside a room filled with explosives and the only way out was to eat a whole tomato i would die