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tumblrina with room temperature (in Celsius) iq: "this person says no sub would ever want CNC"

Another tumblrina, IQ of an infant's shoe size (US sizes): "usual terf shit"

The poster: not even a radfem/terf.

there's more lore to this but I follow this person and in their own words, this is fucking insane. I'm so sad for them that only terfs reblogged their post because it hits the nail. Cis men are the majority of doms, especially in the ""CNC"" scene. They are not doing this to help their "sub", but because they're aroused by the "sub"'s suffering of reliving the trauma and such. They admit to it on reddit and other places, but no one in the kink scene will ever accept it.

I'm so tired.

yeah, i feel like it’s going to burn a lot of trans men, and there’s absolutely no community or safe space to talk about surviving abuse in kink. there’s not really many resources for trans men who experience sexual violence

I was looking for information on CNC and its harms and everything I saw was basically either cis men defending it because "it helps my sub" (yeah right lol), and cis women saying how amazing and helpful it is, so I didn't even think much when posting. Idrk the statistics for trans people in this kink, which is a disclaimer I should have made probably.

tumblrina with room temperature (in Celsius) iq: "this person says no sub would ever want CNC"

Another tumblrina, IQ of an infant's shoe size (US sizes): "usual terf shit"

The poster: not even a radfem/terf.

there's more lore to this but I follow this person and in their own words, this is fucking insane. I'm so sad for them that only terfs reblogged their post because it hits the nail. Cis men are the majority of doms, especially in the ""CNC"" scene. They are not doing this to help their "sub", but because they're aroused by the "sub"'s suffering of reliving the trauma and such. They admit to it on reddit and other places, but no one in the kink scene will ever accept it.

I'm so tired.

yeah, i feel like it’s going to burn a lot of trans men, and there’s absolutely no community or safe space to talk about surviving abuse in kink. there’s not really many resources for trans men who experience sexual violence

I was looking for information on CNC and its harms and everything I saw was basically either cis men defending it because "it helps my sub" (yeah right lol), and cis women saying how amazing and helpful it is, so I didn't even think much when posting. Idrk the statistics for trans people in this kink, which is a disclaimer I should have made probably.

You already let child abusers one foot in the door. PREDATORS LOVE THIS RHETORIC. These "no-contact" fuckers are lying. Look at any of these paraphile mfs followings on twitter and you'll find them following multiple pro contact people and people with Telegram links in their bio. You know, Telegram, infamous for having a CSAM problem.

Anne Carson (2009)

Arthur S. Way (1898)

George Theodoridis (2010)

Ian C. Johnston (2010)

E.P. Coleridge (1910)

Theodore Alois Buckley (1892)

John Peck, Frank Nisetich (1995)

R. Potter (1906)

M. L. West (1987)

William Arrowsmith (1958)

Philip Vellacott (1972)

Michael Wodhull (1782)

Kenneth McLeish (1997)

David Kovacs (2002)

Andrew Wilson (1993)