everyone who keeps reblogging those posts about how kinks are just excuses for men to get off to hurting women: y'all are aware thatβs radfem rhetoric????
like you donβt have to like kinks but the idea that men are universally abusers and women are deluding themselves into thinking they enjoy it when theyβre actually just being abused is straight up ~kink-critical~ radfem stuff and itβs not new. and like Iβm seeing a lot of that exact shit on my dash and honestly it needs to stop bc this is exactly how they recruit and Iβm done with it
This is how they get you!
Like on the surface, it sounds legit, it ticks all the good feminism boxes. Women are being hurt! By men! Patriarchy!
But if you really look at it, itβs saying that grown ass women canβt make decisions about their own sex lives. Grown ass women need to be protected from themselves because they are too gullible to understand that they donβt actually like kink.
And thatβs what a lot of radfem and terf logic boils down to. βYou donβt know what you want and need, WE know what you want and need. You canβt be trusted. We know better.β
Sounds familiar doesnβt it? Itβs the same patronizing attitude weβve been fighting forever in Western culture.
βYou canβt be trusted with your own body.β
βYou canβt be trusted to know your own gender.β
βYou canβt be trusted to know your own sexuality.β
βThere is only one right way to be a woman.β
Feminism is supposed to be about rejecting all of that, not changing the person making the rules!
Feminism is supposed to be about rejecting all of that, not changing the person making the rules!
