Trans Rights babey!

term: fixigender

a fluid gender experienced by those with adhd which can fluctuate or intensify with a hyperfixation. can feel like it fades without a hyperfixation & can also depend on what the hyperfixation is!

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Trying to police the pronouns of others and the way they present their gender nonconformity is bad. Gender nonconformity that has been forced into very strict rules of what is okay is not gender nonconformity. If you tell a person ‘yeah you can be GNC- but oh not that way because this thing only belongs to THAT gender’ then what the FUCK is the point of being gender nonconforming???? Like??? YEAH I KNOW SOCIETY ASSOCIATES HE/HIM WITH MASCULINITY THATS WHY I FUCKIN USE THEM! CAUSE I WANNA BE MASCULINE! THAT DOESNT MAKE ME A MAN!

Most sexual orientation positivity is directed towards MLM and WLW, which is great, but people tend to forget those who don’t fit under those umbrellas.

Just saying “non-binary people can be WLW or MLM too!” isn’t a solution because there needs to be more recognition of non-binary people who aren’t woman-aligned or male-aligned.

Non binary people can be wlw. We can also be mlm. We can be wlw and mlm at the same time. We can switch between them at different times. Or they could apply in other way which don’t fit the dichotomy of ‘or’.

We can also be neither. The labels nblnb, nblm and nblw exist for a reason. But also not all of us will even fit those which is fair and good and needs to be respected.

Also shout out to non oriented aroace non binary people.

hi!!! that’s great, i’m glad trendercore helped with your dysphoria, it helped with mine aswell!!

and.. yeah. it is kinda frustrating tbh. it’s frustrating not being able to relate to people, or seeing a thread of picrews with all white people. it’s also kinda frustrating because i feel sorta invisible?? like people will talk about transphobia and who faces more and who’s more privileged and who’s this but.. a lot of times. those people are white. and they’re not taking race account. even though trans people of colour face more struggles than white trans people because being white makes everything easier.

anyways

note: this does not, by any stretch, mean that non-binary people can't take pride in their specific identities, flags, communities, etc, or that all non-binary people have to id as trans. non-binary pride is a beautiful and unique thing, and some non-binary ppl actively don't identify that way and that's perfectly valid. but I see tons of non-binary people who are scared or tentative to id as trans or just plain don't know that trans as a label, as a community, as pride, is available to them. this message is for them; you are not stealing, you are not "lower tier" or "knock-off" trans or "Trans Lite."

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the dysphoria debate is not going to go anywhere.

we’ve found every fact there is, every source to back us up, every firsthand experience explaining why it is so fucking important to be inclusive, and every single fucking time we get the same insults and youtube videos and weird transphobic articles from 2013 that say nothing about dysphoria. it’s become such a war of “Real” vs “Fake” Trans and it exists nowhere but online and every single fucking person i’ve tried speaking about it irl agrees that the entire thing is nonsense.

they are not going to stop. truscum have found every excuse under the sun to misgender and invalidate anybody that isn’t perfectly passing or has the resources to fully medically transition. No, Not All Of Them. shut the fuck up. i know that not every single truscum and transmed in existence takes every opportunity they have to exclude people from the community, but the mentality is inherently transphobic. the argument is hurting people. the entire anti-nonbinary mentality has hurt me personally so fucking much, and there’s absolutely no end in sight. my only hope at this point is that hopefully one day these people grow up and realize they don’t have their entire lives to spend being nasty.

i am absolutely sick and tired of worrying about who is interacting with me online because they might find something about me to invalidate and decide to attack me for it. i’m afraid all the time of somebody with a bigger platform than mine finding me and deciding that i deserve to have slurs and insults thrown my way. every single time i log into one of my discourse accounts i just get so fucking tired. and i’m lucky, i have a relatively small audience across all my accounts. i don’t get attacked nearly as often as some others do, i haven’t personally been shown under the spotlight by kalvin and his fans, i haven’t had to deal with threats in quite a while. but at this point it’s just an echo chamber of us trying to get our sources to them and them trying to apply their personal experiences to everybody.

it will not stop. they aren’t going to stop insisting that being trans is inherently an awful thing. they will not stop attacking and harassing any trans person with differing beliefs. i’ve tried for months to just get a single person to read my sources, to come into a debate with an open mind, and in return i’ve been called some of the most disgusting things i’ve ever heard another person say. as soon as you have the guts to slap the label “tucute” onto your beliefs it puts a gigantic target on your back, and at any moment someone might decide to fire at it. the tumblr and instagram truscum communities are some of the most negative and hateful places i’ve ever seen.

i’ve tried quitting discourse. when a few posts on my old tumblr blew up i deactivated it because i was afraid. i haven’t let myself be honest with my identity or my presentation because i’m afraid of the harassment it might bring, despite being dysphoric. i want so badly to be out of it all, to worry instead about the transphobia that is so rampant outside of discourse. i wish i could focus on supporting young trans people coming out for the first time, to assure them that not everything has to be suffering. i wish i could say that a single person has bothered to listen to what i have to say and the sources i have to back up why i think the way i do. but i can’t, and it isn’t looking like that’s going to change any time soon.

Princecoric (left) & Knightcoric (right)

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Princecoric: A masc gender that is based around princecore/feels royal & powerful

Knightcoric: A masc gender that is based around knightcore/feels protective & strong