If you know me irl I'm so sorry but no you don't

Therefore, we need to do our part to promote the websites of these businesses.

Please reblog this and share your favorite dildo maker’s website.

Mine is Neotori. I’ve ordered several from them and they’re extremely high quality. They have a wide selection to choose from. Also despite being in Europe while I’m in the USA, shipping has always been quite fast. They also have seemed to be very easy to work with when there are problems. I first purchased from them through Etsy but I’ve made many purchases through their own website and it has always gone smoothly.

being intersex is not a privilege

no, it's not a privilege even if an intersex person is also trans and their intersex variation makes them pass more easily

no, it's not a privilege even if an intersex person is also nonbinary

no, it's not a privilege even if an intersex person is also cis

an intersex cis person is not considered to be cis by society

an intersex man is not considered to be a man by society

intersex people are always considered to be "wrong" and "other"-- cis privilege is complicated when it comes to cis intersex people

sorry for being a bottomheavy bimboy who already looks pregnant but i think you should put a baby in me juuuuust in case

Sure, your lover is into petplay, but have you talked about whether you're supposed to yank on that leash??

Absolutely, she's into degradation, but do you know whether that name makes her think of a bad ex??

Mhmm, your girl is into getting choked, but do you know how to grab her without endangering her?? Do you even know if she wants you to stop her blood flow and/or airways???

I see, your darling is into rope, but do you know whether you're tying them up in a position they don't like?? Did you even remember your rounded edge scissors in case of emergency??

Okay, so it's into CNC, do you react with care and compassion if/when it safewords??

Yea, your Dom/me is hot and scary, but have you communicated your needs, and wants, and appreciation for them?? Are you ever making sure they're having fun?? Are you ever even using your safewords, if not why?? You might need to!

if you like [insert any kink here] but find that you feel gross in a bad way every time you do it, that's your body telling you that something isn't working here. it doesn't mean that you're bad or your partner(s) are bad, it just means that right now that kind of play isn't safe for you. maybe you need to work through some things in therapy and then it's fine. maybe it's something you can continue to fantasize about but it's not something you'll ever be able to safely play with IRL. maybe you just need to tweak the scene to avoid some specific triggers. the answer is not to keep forcing yourself to play in a way that leaves you feeling empty and hurt. that is self-harm.

^he is literally a purse dog