if one ends up with a service job it is not unusual to encounter people throughout the day who may have a problem withholding details of their lives, they overshare. i've experienced it multiple times because i've worked as a cashier, and it's not really a problem necessarily, it just makes me wonder how the person is feeling, maybe they are lonely, maybe it's easier to talk to a stranger about this subject, maybe they'll regret it later, i wonder if they consciously choose to share these thoughts or if they just blurted out something and since i'm listening and i'm paid to be there responding and being nice then they might as well keep talking. at the moment i work at a sex shop and of course, people also overshare here, i listen to a lot of intimate details with varying degrees of filters. it makes more sense i guess, since the products sold are for very intimate use so it may be the case that customers feel more inclined to get into more detail completely unprompted. but aren't all purchases intimate? when you go to the supermarket and buy your groceries, all of that is implicit information about you, your nutrition, your plans for the day, the amount of people you live with, pets you may have, the cashier or the other customers may or may not infer this information about you, in the sex shop it's no different, it's no different in any public space really, or even a private space, in that case only certain persons or no person is privvy to your characteristics, maybe ones that you decide not share with the public. when we interact, something always spills out wether one speaks or not, everything about you is information, it's just that we cannot process everyone's all the time so we gloss over details daily to optimize and keep living life. imagine if there was a way to never reveal anything. if there was someone who emitted nothing, i think that would be a scary person actually. what would that even look like. of course there are people who lie or want to project a false image, i don't really think that counts as revealing nothing, others may pick up on the act and others may not, either way that is still information. maybe i am thinking of a sort of featureless person, not sure that is possible.
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