Howdy! I'm Pyral, And Im A Little Bit Particular.

we've got something about resistance play in mind today. a lot of tnemm has been playing with resistance as a kink concept, in lots of different ways. cnc, rape-kinks, princesses, hounds, and so on. the idea that it's hot when you don't get a choice in the matter, and someone physically or psychologically forces you to obey. it's an incredibly common kink across the board

like all play this sort of play requires negotiation. there's lots of factors to consider. it's used victim/aggressor here, but any dynamic titles could be used here, like princess/maid, hound/handler, submissive/dominance, and so on.

how much force does the victim want used

how much force can the victim withstand

how much resistance does the victim want to use

what kind of resistance does the victim want to use? fighting back? verbal abuse? emotional pleading?

does the victim want to lose and give in or want to stay defiant throughout that loss

how comfortable is the aggressor with using force

what force is the aggressor actually capable of using

how much resistance can the aggressor take before flinching

what tactics does the aggressor want to use? physical force? verbal degredation? blackmail?

does the aggressor want the victim to secretly enjoy it, or want them to hate it completely

what are the risks inherent in the force that's to be used and how can they be mitigated

what happens when/if the victim cries and begs for it to stop

how do you initiate a resistance scene

how does a resistance scene end

is there a fake safeword

there's a lot to it, which means if you're not careful, and any uncertainty in any of these questions will lead to moments of uncertainty and unexpected escalations that might leave everyone feeling hurt when it's all said and done. you might be able to get away with not talking it out if your expectations line up well, but if they don't someone can get actually hurt

as much as it feels like a betrayal of the non-consent part of the play, you have to be able to communicate up front the specific ways you want consent to be forced and consent to that ahead of playing with resistance play

Heeelllppppp I had to think sooooo hard today and I didn’t even have time to watch Bluey over my lunch break cuz I had to work 😭

I feel like a large amount of my petplay fantasies are rather generic because of lack of experience. But the basics of stripping them, making them eat off the floor, not allowed on the couch, being in a cage, maybe sleep on the end of the bed are all pretty appealing. I think outside of that I would definitely want to implement creative ways to hit on their favorite kinks depending on the person.

But since I love a good prompt to be creative let me give this a shot:

You know how it's a thing to have a pet in the car on "pet mode" and it says how many degrees it is in the car. I think it'd be hot to set up a picture that has a sign "don't worry this cage is puppy girl/boy mode" and maybe on a screen it shows like the level of the lovense in the background? Just a cheeky way of showing I don't expect the puppy to be able to communicate with humans.

I think it'd be hot to enforce how puppys give kisses, they don't get kissed like an adult, they have to lick, getting a puppy all worked up and then they have to show their affection by licking my face? I just love reinforcing subs statuses by teaching them how they have to engage in things differently than I would normally do with a peer of equal status.

Getting them the extra large drink, watching the sip away and almost finish the whole thing less than an hour into the movie,

Getting them a refill before they can get up, they try to follow but you just *insist* they can't miss this scene.

When you come back they're practically bouncing, squirming in their seet.

"Can i--"

"No no, no wait for this scene to end!"

And the next scene, and the next. They try to get up, but you pull them into your lap.

"Please, I'm-"

"thirsty?"

You hold the soda up, reminding them they still gotta finish that one too.

By the time the movies over, they're bursting. But, oh god, the line.

"L-Let's just go,"

"But I thought you had to pee?"

You make them stand in the line. Ten minutes pass, you're about four people away ....

"You know what, you're right. This is taking forever."

"what?? But-but-"

You practically drag them outside while they pathetically whimper their spot in like quickly claimed.

You get them in the car, aking sure the seatbelt is properly adjusted, since they can't seem to do it themselves.

"T-Too tight," they whine against the security of the belt.

"It's nessisary, don't worry about it. You're grown you know this. Awh, honey, you're holding yourself so hard. Don't worry, it's just an eight minute drive home, as long as theirs no traffic."

Of course theirs traffic.

You get home twenty minutes later. They can't even make it to the front door, making it three steps before the floodgates break, leaving a huge wet spot on your patio and their pants/dress.