I've evolved to the next level of girl's girling: going nuts on the male youth leaders who decided we should play a game involving grabbing ribbons off each other's bodies at a co-ed retreat with middle and high schoolers.
four girls came to me sobbing because the boys were targeting them and elbowing them in the face and wouldn't stop even though the girls were screaming and crying.
and then, of course, the girls' leader in our cabin wouldn't listen. (of course, the male leaders in my church listened and agreed that the game was inappropriate and the teams were unbalanced and the boys were unfairly targeting us. and the other two teams allied with us and booed the stupid cheating gloating boys. so that was great. no one except the pick-me girl enjoyed those games though)














