I DON’T LIKE MEN 😎

you dumb asshole, you just won $0,000

😍fuck

#and it also changes based on age. skin color. class. political affiliation. ability. etc.#any girl who was a celebrated tomboy as a kid only to have everyone hate it when she grew up can tell you that#theres a type of gender conformity that's popular with democrats that is like...carefully constructed nonthreatening nonconformity#there's literally a term for misogynoir because of how twisted the expectations can get for black women#you need to conform to whatever your specific audience wants from you in your specific situation#(which only goes to show what a ridiculous house of cards the whole thing is to begin with)#and to be clear this shit is also true for masculinity i just dont have as much experience with that personally (via @bananonbinary)