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I'm slowly teaching myself that someone else's emergency is not my emergency. I've been running miles for people who couldn't even take a step for me.

i think it’s important to realize that no matter how good you are to people, it won’t make them good to you.

We rly need to bring back the term “acquaintance” like into regular and frequent use. So many high drama community squabbles and feelings of betrayal could be avoided if people just admitted there’s a step between “stranger” and a full on friend whose friendship you have a commitment to continuing and fostering. Like sometimes you’re just aquatinted with someone and you might decide you don’t like them after getting to know them a bit better…that’s very normal

I have a thousand reasons why I should be hateful and negative and bitter. But I am not

It had to happen for growth purposes

You owe it to yourself to move on and make healthier choices.

congratulations on getting through the day even if it was really, really hard. you’re doing great.

I’m sorry to myself for holding on so tightly when I already know I needed to let go

you’re not selfish for wanting to be treated well

if you were truly a bad person, you wouldn’t be so hung up on the morality of your mistakes. the fact that you want to go back and make it right means you’re growing from this and you’ll try to do better next time.

The most attractive thing to me is effort. Someone who really wants to talk to me, wants to see me, wants to make me a part of their day.