the daily nonsense.

Lately, I’ve been finding my place again.In my life. In my thoughts. In my goals. In my mindset. Not in a dramatic, movie-montage way—more like slowly realizing you’ve been standing in the wrong room with the lights off and thinking, oh… this explains a lot. There’s been a lot happening. In the world. In the news. In conversations that feel heavier than they used to. A collective sadness…

Less “detox tea,” more actually freeing your life. Use this for reflection, journaling, or just a reminder that sometimes the work isn’t about adding more—it’s about letting go. This season, I’m noticing what no longer serves me. The things I’m choosing to release are heavy, familiar, and often disguised as normal: Conversations that drain instead of challenge Saying yes out of fear Measuring…

"It is within me, so I have to will it into existence."

Imagine not second-guessing yourself and getting things done. Staying true to your plans and ultimately showing yourself that you are in control. It’s a wild game to play, not to mention fun! I’ve been working on doubting myself less; it gets triggered within me when I get scared. Is this you too? I used to claim the title of perfectionist. It was my go-to strength and weakness when prompted…

My princessa, my little flower!

I have never been the gym type, but I am now! #newyear #newme #growth #gymlife #gymnewbie

I wrote something short to ignite what's to come! I'm learning so much about myself these days—being intentional, finding purpose, and simply overcoming my own life challenges. I am doing the best I can, and I'm okay with that. I'm remembering to be nice to myself and give myself a break. We all deserve it! So anyway, here's the thing. It’s crazy what time can do to a person.Memories made,…

What’s happening in Charlotte?

Want to move to Charlotte? Wondering what Charlotte Market looks like? Here is a little teaser! As a native I have seen Charlotte change so much – It’s crazy! Throughout Charlotte, you’ll find all sorts of diamonds and gems to consider your new home. The lifestyle, culture, and neighborhoods truly make you feel at home. As developments and communities grow, it’ll only get better. Pricing is…

NC Real Estate Agent , chp 3 Section 3.

From real estate paralegal to real estate agent. From passing closing documents to real estate contracts. Oh my have I been through quite the roller coaster ride. 2 years ago – headed to the law firm. Working for attorneys will teach you to three things: read everything twice, pay attention to detail, and lastly when in doubt just say you don’t know. Your word is super important and I rather…

Cat in the bag

These two are so different it’s ridiculous. Pictured below is Tails. She is a true tuxedo cat. She is shy, scared of most things but loves to cuddle. She hates loud noises but enjoys lounging in sun spots and home made forts. Below is Mushka, she is a new age tuxedo, grey in color. Spunky and mischievous that one 😏 is all over the place. Literally every morning she has to see the birds morning…

Staple: jean jacket ftw!

They’ll have to pry it off of me. Or hope I can’t fit it anymore. Thats my twin pregnant as ever pictured with me!

30 & in diapers

My first few month of diapers I was embarrassed and ashamed. I’m not gonna lie, I don’t really want to go back to wearing anything else. These are definitely discrete no one has noticed them for a whole entire year. I have totally embraced the idea of me sporting this around the house. My comfort supersedes everything else. I have continued this so much so that I forget that underwear is a…

Vegan Avocado mask 🥑

Basic ingredients: apple cider vinegar, olive oil, avocado, coconut milk, banana Today I will be bringing you my vegan avocado mask. My natural hair journey has proven the avocado mask to benefit my hair tremendously. My first one was in 2018, hah I remember my roommate at the time being very judgmental (🙄 some engineers don’t know when to stop). No I have tried different versions of avocado…