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"how can I put efforts in my manifestation/shift"

"do i need to work harder? Am I not doing enough?"

"can you give me tips for this very unique situation (😃)? Can YOU tell me what to do?"

Like stop ㅠㅠ it's not the 3d world hustle bustle work hard do 21 day challenge be successful course thingy 🤡 IT'S YOU, YOUR INNER WORLD, YOUR CREATION. Like when tf is it gonna click for y'all? 😭 Stop asking silly questions like no you don't need to work "harder" like wdym by that? You want me to tell you to AFFIRM WITH YOUR CHEST UNTIL YOUR HAIR FALLS OFF AND JUMP AROUND AND ROLL LIKE A WORM AND THEN START FLYING??? What's working hard in loa bro MAKE IT EASYYY

If you think you have to work harder/you're not doing enough THAT'S AN ASSUMPTION

If you assume you're doing something wrong YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING WRONG (spoiler alert; assuming that you're doing something wrong 🤦🏻‍♀️)

AND STOP asking anyone else than yourself to answer your questions cuz like no ask YOURSELF. Loa can apply to ANYTHING it's all the same. Do y'all ever ask yourself the questions you ask bloggers? "How will this happen even tho this is the case?" "I wanna be this but I'm so baaaddd 😫" like? Can you see you're doing the opposite of what we're telling you to? You're asking how and blah blah. You're assuming the opposite of what's in your favour 😭😭😭 start applying

Like i hate to repeat this line but it's your fault no one else is getting anything good or bad if you think in your favour or you don't. Literally. THE ONLY PERSON GETTING AFFECTED BY YOUR ACTIONS, WORDS, THOUGHTS IS YOU AND ALWAYS WILL BE YOU.

Does it sound harsh? Not to me cuz it's the opposite of what we've heard that you can't control anything, you have to work for it, no pain no gain. No! it sounds so comforting to me that YES! IT'S ME. I AM THE ONE IN CONTROL SO I CAN CHOOSE FOR MYSELF.

When are you gonna start choosing for yourself?

✵ UNDERSTANDING THE FEAR. The fear of actually shifting to your DR is such a sneaky block because it’s not something we expect to feel. Like, you’re doing all this work (visualizing, affirming, scripting, etc) and yet deep down, you might be scared of actually getting what you want. It’s wild, but it makes sense when you break it down.

✵ WHY SUCCESS MIGHT FEEL SCARY.

— Even if you’ve visualized your DR a million times or planned your DR down to the last detail, but actually being there is a completely new experience. What’s it actually going to feel like to be there? What if things don’t go how you imagined? That uncertainty can trigger a lowkey (or not so lowkey) fear.

— Success comes with its own pressure. Once you shift, it’s easy to start overthinking. What if I can’t do it again? What if it’s not what I expected? That “what if” spiral can get overwhelming. And that might create a fear of succeeding.

— Even if you don’t love your CR, it’s still comfortable because it’s familiar. Leaving behind parts of it, even if it’s just for a short amount of time, (people, routines, or even just your identity in this reality) can feel heavier than you realize.

— What if your DR doesn’t live up to the dream? What if it’s not perfect? That fear can make success feel risky, and your brain might unconsciously try to avoid it altogether.

✵ HOW THIS FEAR MESSES WITH YOU. This fear doesn’t usually scream “I’m scared to succeed!” It shows up in subtle ways like procrastinating, feeling “stuck,” constantly tweaking your script, overthinking your method, or second-guessing yourself. It’s like your mind is putting up invisible walls without you even realizing it.

✵ WHY PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT IT. This fear gets ignored because it feels backwards, like why would you be scared of getting what you want? Plus, in the shifting community, everyone’s so focused on HOW to shift, they don’t always talk about the emotional side of it. It’s easier to think you’re just “doing it wrong” than to realize you might be holding yourself back.

✵ HOW TO GET PAST IT.

— Acknowledge it. The first step is being honest with yourself. Ask, Am I scared of actually shifting to my DR? Once you see it for what it is, it’s easier to work through.

— Instead of obsessing over the moment you shift, think about how you’re going to feel and thrive once you’re there. Build that excitement so it outweighs the fear.

— Remind yourself you’ve got this. You’ve done the work, and you’re capable of handling whatever comes up in your DR. Affirmations like “I’m ready for this” or “I trust myself” really help.

— Your DR doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be worth experiencing. Give yourself room to explore and grow. Nothing has to be set in stone.

— Shifting doesn’t have to be some huge, dramatic moment. Every step (big or small) you take is progress, so don’t psych yourself out by making it feel bigger than it is.

✵ FINAL THOUGHTS. So yeah, fear of success is real, but it doesn’t have to stop you. The key is recognizing it for what it is and deciding it’s not going to hold you back. You’ve already done the hard part by getting this far, trust that you’re ready for what’s waiting on the other side.