Lose your mind, find your soul

You deserve a partner who checks whether you’re comfortable. You deserve a partner who will respect your boundaries. You deserve a partner who will be cautious if you do not know what your boundaries are.

people ask me all the time how i’m so confident and its because i stopped being afraid of myself. i stopped being afraid of expressing myself in full. i stopped being afraid of being me. i stopped being afraid of my body and the reactions that are out of my hands. i stopped being afraid of my natural features and allowed my hair to flourish and grow in all parts of my body. i turned that anxious energy that thrummed inside of me into excitement and turned my pain into power. i rebuilt my foundation from the ground up and decided that i was going to build an empire for myself because i deserve it. an empire built by my actions, decisions, and the love i choose to show up for myself with.