Has it been long enough that I can say “malewife” was a keeningly transmisogynistic meme from the start and the way that tme ppl got obsessed with it was and is extremely telling

For something to be transmisogynistic it has to be used against transgender women. Let's all use our brains for a moment.

this is really funny to me because the implication it presents of what ‘real bigotry’ is absolutely wildly, clearly insane, and you’re only doing literally for the sole reason of avoiding having to confront transmisogyny. it’s ok for straight people to mockingly call each other homos because they aren’t talking to gay people. its chill for men to tell each other not to act like a woman when they do something they don’t like because they’re not talking to a woman so it can’t be misogynistic in nature. a cis person calling another cis person a tranny as an insult towards their appearance is mean but not transphobic since there’s no trans people there. the world is made of pudding

Of course there are a million derogatory terms for feminine men, but you specifically pick the one used by Tumblrinas to talk about their beloved blorbos instead of, I don't know, literally any of the transmisogynistic slurs. I'd love to find the toxic men who call each other "malewife" as a derogatory.

Has it been long enough that I can say “malewife” was a keeningly transmisogynistic meme from the start and the way that tme ppl got obsessed with it was and is extremely telling

For something to be transmisogynistic it has to be used against transgender women. Let's all use our brains for a moment.

Like we will not get anywhere with "protecting children" as long as we pretend that the people posing a threat to children are scary stranger danger boogeymen and not, statistically speaking, their parents and other authority figures in their daily life

I feel like this post is missing the conclusion of who else a child is to go to if not their parents or teachers. Perhaps another adult who isn't related to them at all and definitely has pure intentions for wanting children farther away from their IRL support networks? Is there something you want to say OP?

to be clear i don't know anything about patricia taxxon or lily or any of the other banned girls lives, and i don't care to deliberate about it. but what i do care about is acting as though pedophilia is acceptable or part of the lgbt community, which it will never be. and to call these women pedophiles under the guise of "it's actually a good thing, though," whether they actually are or aren't, is just another level of gross

also very interesting that in every conversation i've had about trans unity the other person assumes i'm tme

woman has a take i don't like so i've decided she's actually a Male in Disguise. where have i heard this before?