Goodbye 20s
I started this blog and my bucketlist exactly a year ago today. Yesterday I finished it yesterday. How nice to have completed it all a day short a year and end my 20s on a high note 😆 Now I can sit back and relishing in celebrating the big 3 0! ☺️
It’s been a life changing year. So many new experiences and challenges occurred through this bucketlist. There were also some personal struggles and as a result of facing them I feel stronger and more whole. My pain is so much more manageable and I feel very grounded.
This has been a year of personal growth and learning. My family and friends have always been there with love and support, but I didn’t appreciated how important they were to me. I needed them. In the darkest times, I discovered how blessed I was through those who reached out with love and encouragement.Sharing my joys, gave them joy. The only judgement that was bringing me down was my own. I am my worst enemy.
The biggest lesson I learned this year was self compassion. My worth is not defined my how much I accomplish nor any judgement on my “good/bad” state. That kind of core value is toxic. Instead worthiness exists through love. For I am worthy of love from others, but the love that matters most is my own. So now I catch myself when I make those judgements and engage in negative self talk. I remind myself to love graciously. Being gentle and unconditional. For I am worthy.
Much love and thanks to my family and friends ❤️
